Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

I am a very responsible, stable guy but I suffer from anxiety and deppression. I go to therapy and take drugs but sometimes I cry for no reason. When I was in a serious relationship with a girl I cried in front of her like once or twice a month. We saw each other everyday so it was bound to happen around her. Everytime I did cry she got wierded out. Are all girls this way? If so, then next relationship should I just go home or off by myself when I feel I am about to cry. I am a nice, sweet, sensitive guy who just cries at times. I have become a lot more assertive and confident but still may cry. I guess I thought she would be consoling. I held her when she was down, ran errands for her, even gave her a massage everytime she asked, and did a lot more for her. But if I cried, even just alittle she was like," Whats your problem?" Is this normal? Do women want a guy who is strong and won't cry this much? I only cry like once a month.

2006-12-19 10:45:06 · 13 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Singles & Dating

Im 20 and I have this so called friend that I've known for three years. We use to be friends with benefits but currently just friends now( i have a boyfriend whom i been with for two years). Well although my friend and I were messing around in my senior year of high school he didnt want to be my boyfriend. I liked him alot that year and still had feelings for him afterwards. He has been in the miltary for 2 years and I have barely heard from him while he was gone. He is home for the hoilidays and he calls me four days after getting home. We hungout that day and he asks me if we have a chance in being together. Bascially he was saying drop my boyfriend and be with him. I told him no although was willing to still be friends with him. We hungout later that week and it got late. So I asked him if he was hoping to get some and he said yeah. So after I turned him down I asked if he was going to blow me off and he said no. I havent heard from him in a week since. Should I drop him or not???

2006-12-19 10:44:59 · 12 answers · asked by J.B. 1 in Singles & Dating

and they allways seem to hang around me every time i go to the club they allways will be kissing on me touching on me holding on me tro many of them it would be nice if these girls were just normal friendly girls but they allways want to have fun guys do u like girls who like to have fun all the time i mean the club girls the ones u saw makeing out with ur buddy and then wants to creep up on u . what do u think of these girls

2006-12-19 10:44:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend..i't a girl actually..he said that no one interested in me and i was very upset when she say something like that..eveytime i try to be confident, there always somebody trying to making me down.what should i do?

2006-12-19 10:44:33 · 4 answers · asked by edel 1 in Singles & Dating

there are two boys i like but niether of them has asked me out! they both have different personalitities. their names are zack and conner. zack is mean to almost every body but me. however he can be sweet to everyone at one time too. conner is super annoying but i have a feeling he likes me back. zack i thnik has a girl friend but i am not sure! advise please!!!
thanks

2006-12-19 10:44:28 · 7 answers · asked by Ally B 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfreinds crazy sister said she filed a restraining order against me for 300 yrds
if hes he doesnt agree with it
then shouldnt we be able to see each other?

2006-12-19 10:43:35 · 4 answers · asked by katten 1 in Family

A little over a year ago, my husband slept with my best friend! I know ouch, but he came clean, and I chose to forgive him, after coming clean he accepted Christ, and changed a lot of his old ways. However he has a myspace account and just every now and then says hi to a mutal friend of ours sister, she is 2 years younger then us, and I feel they have no reason to talk, so one day in the middle of an argument, I spewed out a lot of anger and acused him of sleeping with this girl (really I was just annoyed he was talking to her, and was trying to express my concern) Needless to say it didnt go so well, coming out like that, and I said sorry for what I ahd said to him, but he never stopeed talking to her, and I would like him to, because thats how the affair with my (now x) best friend happend, me and her were not on speaking terms, and he kept talking to her all behind my back, and now its like deja vu except this gorl isnt my best friend, how do I let him know how I feel?

2006-12-19 10:42:46 · 42 answers · asked by AntzaGurl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-19 10:42:22 · 20 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Singles & Dating

I see my bestfriend once a week and she feels thats not enough and goes on about how much she misses me and wishes we could spend more time. She is afraid we are drifting apart. I feel that once a week is fine. I have alot going on in my life and don't have the energy to hang out two week nights a week after working all day. Do you think I am wrong and I should give in to her? I don't have kids and I was just married a few months ago and she wants me to be her unmarried friend agian that can hang out whenever. I don't know what do you think?

2006-12-19 10:42:05 · 7 answers · asked by BabyDolll128 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He is non religious and I want to tell him about the lord. What should I do?

2006-12-19 10:41:48 · 15 answers · asked by Lynne 2 in Friends

girlfriend a Christmas present? Wouldn't it hurt your feelings? Or would you think to yourself, "men will be men. Just grin and bear it".

2006-12-19 10:41:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

gift ideas for a 13 year old girl from her best friend! She got me something really cool and I don't know what to get her. Please help Me!!

Thanks

2006-12-19 10:40:36 · 22 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Friends

A friend of mine Joyce*(yes it's really a friend) was sexually assaulted yesterday and called the police on the guy. Now the girl is saying to everyone in school that Joyce acted like a baby by calling the police. Any opinions from anyone?

2006-12-19 10:40:19 · 10 answers · asked by mb13 2 in Singles & Dating

I am still in love with the mother of my 11 week old daughter, we've been split up for 7 months and I still miss and love her sooooo much it kills me. We were together for awhile. We split during the hormone months and now we are getting along. I think sometimes i hear it in her voice and see it in her eyes she still has something there for "us"

2006-12-19 10:40:17 · 15 answers · asked by mike_is_a_single_dad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

look i am not saying that all guys are self centered but the ones that i do know are so self centered that it is crazy! i mean all my BF's have been that way and i just i want a guy who cares for me is that too much to ask!??

2006-12-19 10:39:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this boy, but he's going out with a girl. We have went out before, and he really liked me, but he broke up with me. I think he still likes me. I still like him a lot though! Help!

2006-12-19 10:38:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 10:38:55 · 17 answers · asked by nsabree6 1 in Weddings

are you able to tell if the guy's penis is big or small?

i mean when you feel it, can u tell its size? cause im scared that if im grinding, they might think mine's to small or something and then not like me as a friend anymore, so im just wondering for my high school dance, plz reply!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...



PS: should i back off if i get "stiff" or get an erection?
and girls, do you like that?

2006-12-19 10:38:52 · 6 answers · asked by teetz 1 in Singles & Dating

????

2006-12-19 10:38:39 · 19 answers · asked by Ashley S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does something happen to the male when one arrives at the age of 18...

I mean, before the age of 18, just about anything and everything goes in America, right?

Laws meant to protect little bo peep under the age of 18...how does this protect against the sexual predator male UNDER the age of 18. A predator OVER the age of 18 always WAS a predator.

I would trust my daughter with a 19-22 year old college student MUCH more than some pubescent, hormonally driven 16-year old.

Any thoughts?

2006-12-19 10:37:34 · 13 answers · asked by LovePinkPuffies 3 in Singles & Dating

It seems like it's getting very popular for girls/women to shave down there. I was wondering, I'm fairly young and uncomfertable with the idea of doing it, so, will it look weird wearing a bikini if I don't shave down there? I did once before and it was kinda itchy. Is it a total turnoff to be able to see the outline or whatever of hair down there?
Thanks!!!

2006-12-19 10:37:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

simple example is I can't go out with friends with out him if it's night out ,dinner ,moives etc always tell me what to do ..in other way he is nice to me he buys me everything . if I want somthing it my way but he needs to know where I am ?who I am talking to?etc... and he start abusing me not physicaly though

2006-12-19 10:36:23 · 15 answers · asked by di0r_punk 1 in Weddings

2006-12-19 10:36:19 · 13 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

My bf and i want to get married he is 24 and i am 22.I love him very much but we are polar opposites in many ways and too much a like in others!He is a club promoter who majored in communications and minored in buisness.I majored in buisness and minored in communications.I just graduated and he wants to move back to houston texas to see about becoming a producer for a rap label(dont ask he is white) he aspires to become an mc.Me i do mainly PR work at the moment.Both jobs require a lot of hours and in his case travel.

2006-12-19 10:36:17 · 4 answers · asked by Nora L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay Im 16 and never had a boyfriend, never had a first kiss or anything. Thats sad isn't it??? I mean I don't think Im ugly. And all my friends tell me Im so cute, pretty, sweet and nice. I not trying to be "big headed" but I am usually really nice to people. Idk maybe Im too nice. I just wish a guy would ask me out. I feel lonely cause EVERYONE of my friends have a boyfriend and are happy. I just want someone too......

2006-12-19 10:35:58 · 17 answers · asked by Country Girl 08 2 in Singles & Dating

when you're getting to know her better.
does it mean she really likes you or just likes you ?

2006-12-19 10:35:47 · 10 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

To be ashamed of my poem writing? I mean, I'm a happy, pretty, friendly 13 year old and I write very dark, disturbing poems. I'd be kinda embaressed if a guy saw my poems. Is that normal?
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
If you want to read one:

You'd think, you'd think the sun would rise,
You'd fall asleep and shut your eyes.
The moon would fall. -Fall, fall,
As the sun would stand for all, all.

You'd think in the morning you'd wake up.
Your mom to make your food.
You'd take it all for granted,
Until your life subdued.

Moms not in the kitchen,
It's still too dark outside.
A bloody knife is on the floor,
You slowly shut your eyes.

Is mommy in the bathroom?
Is she lying on the floor?
A pool of blood beside her,
She couldn't take it anymore.

You know she's dead already,
As you run to get the phone,
As you dial just 3 numbers,
You run away from home.

You're sitting on the sidewalk,
As the screaming engines roar.
Now Mommy's in the hospital,
On the very lowest floor.
*continued*

2006-12-19 10:34:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK I like a 17 year old and he likes me and im 14 and He says he wants to kiss me but every time we see each other (in school) he doesnt kiss me we just look at each other for a long time and then we say bye and it makes me mad because i know that he wants to because he told me on the phone but should i make the first move if so how?

2006-12-19 10:34:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A former ex had been emailing me. Wrongly, I sent occasional responses and continued communication with her. There was nothing other than emailing going on. Somehow, my wife found out about it. She was hurt and felt deceived that I kept this somewhat secret. I apologized profusely. She says that at this point, her trust for me is gone. I feel horrible and don't want this sort of bad tension with my wife. How can I once again gain her trust?

2006-12-19 10:34:12 · 26 answers · asked by BeatTheGib 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think some marriages serve a purpose for a specific period of time and are not meant to last does anyone else believe this or
am I missing something. Life is short why should you be unhappy?
I just dont understand people that feel you should be unhappy if you have tried everything you can first and stay married because you made a promise 5 , 10 or more years ear.lier

2006-12-19 10:33:54 · 25 answers · asked by scout1567 2 in Marriage & Divorce