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2006-12-19 10:38:39 · 19 answers · asked by Ashley S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am in a situation where I have two wonderful men in my life, not saying that it is right but it happened. I think that it is possible to love someone but at the same time start to fall in love with another. I am not sure I can say I love them both equally but I definately know what love is and it is not as straight laced as I thought it was. Either way you and me can only be with one and that is the real question...which one do you think you love more?
2006-12-19 10:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by Love2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what perspective your asking the question in, and whether you are questioning whether this is okay or not. i can't answer for you in the sexual context, but as for being in love, feelings wise - to be in a relationship with, yes you can love two people at the same time - is it right - probably not, one or the other will get hurt if not all of you, especially if they find out about each other. No good can come of this. If you really love them that much, and this will hurt the most - leave one behind. Loves merits the largest sacrifices in life . . .
2006-12-19 19:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by redbaron101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
And, no
The problem with this question is the word "love". The word's meaning in today's English is loaded. It can mean anything from brotherly "love" to lustful "love".
Other languages break down what we call love into different catagories. It's a lot less confusing.
Put me down for "yes", all things considered.
2006-12-19 23:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can believe you do. You see different qualities that each person has to offer and you love the individuals for what they give you but that's selfish. If one is love with multiple people they in essence have no idea what they want and are using other people to meet their selfish needs.
2006-12-19 18:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I love my wife, son, my daughter, my mother, my dad, my dog, my best friend ...etc
Can I be in love with two people? No
Simple test:
Imagine them both in a boat and each one is tied to an anchor and about to be tossed off opposite sides of the boat. You can't save both.
Which do you save?
ONE
TWO
THREE
If you didn't pick someone by one they would both be dead.
2006-12-19 19:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Can you love two people at the same time?" Yes.
I love my mother, my father, my two brothers... I used to love my wife... love her first daughter (my stepdaughter), the three girls we had together, my current girlfriend, her two boys...
Sure people can love more than one person at a time!
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Okay, I must presume you're talking about honking someone's horn this morning and honking someone else's horn tonight... In that case, hell no.
2006-12-19 19:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my dear. You can't love two people at the same time... Your question is very vague. Can't help without more info.
2006-12-19 18:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a touching question. Like me I am still married but separated. This new year I will be filling for a divorce. My husband is living with other women, he was having affair. That's way were separated. Time has past on and now I have a boyfriend, who I love. As far as my husband gos we shared a lot of yrs together. I still love him in a way that I hope for him that he happy in life and he makes a good life for himself. My boyfriend now I am in love with him. I want to share my life with him. I do love my husband still but not in a relationship way. My husband called me 3days ago to tell me he still loves me and wants me back. I could of gave in, but I didn't. I had to choice wants best for me and who best for my kids. My boyfriend now is good to me. No one is perfect, but over all he is a good man. If your in the middle of two good men.Your going to have to judge who is better for you and if you have kids who better for them or if no kids, and when your ready who will be a better husband and father. You can't stay in the middle. Your cheated yourself out and most of all your cheated them.If love them one of them you have to let go, because you love them. read ten stupid things women to to mess up their lives by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger
2006-12-19 18:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. That's why GOD gave us the right to choose whoever we want to see.
There are so many other fishes in the sea that not one person will satisfy our needs or wants.
2006-12-19 18:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really, as one is always going to be picked over the other, there will always be someone left with a broken heart. one love will always win over the other one eventually.
2006-12-19 18:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋