My bf and i want to get married he is 24 and i am 22.I love him very much but we are polar opposites in many ways and too much a like in others!He is a club promoter who majored in communications and minored in buisness.I majored in buisness and minored in communications.I just graduated and he wants to move back to houston texas to see about becoming a producer for a rap label(dont ask he is white) he aspires to become an mc.Me i do mainly PR work at the moment.Both jobs require a lot of hours and in his case travel.
2006-12-19 10:36:17 · 4 answers · asked by Nora L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He said he could possibly get me a job in PR in texas through his connections but he wants to move end of january so i have little time to make up my mind should i take the jump?
2006-12-19 10:38:45 · update #1
I am worried that we will both be in clubs, partys and other events with a lot of temptation!
2006-12-19 10:42:28 · update #2
You are young and in love. If you don't take risks, life is boring. Try to come up with the worst thing that could possibly happen, then think of the best thing that could possibly happen, and decide whether or not it is in your best interest to risk it.
Life is short. I would totally go. No mistakes, only lessons, right? I wish the best for you. :)
2006-12-19 15:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by asleep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is : Do you want to do it?
People will come on here and tell you it's all good or it's all bad.
The answer is within you. When you think about moving there do you feel excited/happy or do you feel apprehensive/uncomfortable.
It's yes or no. Go with your gut feeling because it is the only thing that will always guide you in the right direction.
All this must be very hard for you and I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-19 18:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by Melo379 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut. Don't worry about differences or similarities and don't try and forecast the future (when you say you might be tempted while clubbing).
Just keep in mind that you can give it a try, and if it doesn't work out, you could always move again. You can get a job and support yourself anywhere.
2006-12-19 19:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister in law is a dental assistant living in Colorado her husband flies black hawk helicopters somewhere she isn't aloud to know. She sees him 6 months he leaves for 18. they have been this way for 7 years. and their marriage is still strong. it just takes a lot of dedication and trust.
2006-12-19 18:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by leaves_of_autumn171311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋