Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

My bf and i had been together for 4 yrs... i know he wasnt much good handling feelings... anyways we got engaged 2 months ago... and sometimes he kinda sent me confusing clues about what he really wanted and still he always stood up saying he loved me and he wanted to marry me. Yesterday i told him in a way seems he is sabotaging his own life since he says he wants something and ask different... and that he really needs to know and be honest to himself about what he really wants and feels for me... now he said today maybe i was right and he never loved me... what you guys think he doesnt really or he is just really messed up? any advice?

2006-12-19 10:05:39 · 1 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Singles & Dating

alrite. i like my guy friend...but im not shur if i wanna tell him. i dont wanna ruin r friendship. he lives down the street from me! he said i waz cute a year ago. but im not shur now...he has a girl friend!!! wat do i do?

2006-12-19 10:05:38 · 8 answers · asked by Moses 2 in Friends

I need to find out if there are any services that are free to see if your spouse/ boy/girlfriend is cheating. I dont have any solid proof, but i THINK my fiance' is cheating. I love him, but I wont be played for a fool. PLEASE help me !!!!

2006-12-19 10:04:41 · 25 answers · asked by La Princessa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i havent been a relationship for months now and i can hang out w/ all my guy friends and just play around..but i guess im not happy i didnt get the guy that i wanted and no one has asked me out...how can i get over it and stop chasing after guys and have them come to me..i mean i know for a fact the right guy will come around but it seems like i cant wait any longer?how can i look at being single in a..good way?? Why do i hate it so much (being single)?? will Mr. right ever come??

2006-12-19 10:04:40 · 9 answers · asked by LC...<3 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 10:03:59 · 3 answers · asked by MOSTPRECIOUSVAL 1 in Friends

If you like bad boys so much, explain what one is!

2006-12-19 10:03:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there anything wrong with a bf going to the strip club? I told my bf to never go 2 the stripclub. He said ok and that he never would. I told him this b/c I think that it is very disrespectful if he is with me! Well 2day I asked him what he ate for lunch & he said steak & I was like where & he named off a strip club. The thing is that he went anyway knowing how I feel about it and I asked him politely why he get going and I did not want him 2? He then he hung up on me. I just don't see what the big deal is about wanted to go 2 a nasty strip club, what do they have that I don't have. He just keeps doing what he wants & he hates when I fuss about it. Am I being 2 nagging or do I have the right to be angry and fuss at him? Is this causing him to want to go and do it anyway? He keeps saying that he loves me but if he did he wouldn't do anything that I don't like and hurt my feelings. I am a little bit confused. I don;t do things that he dosen't like. I feel disrespected!!

2006-12-19 10:03:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not strong enough to take the steps i need to to take break up wiht my boyfriend... he is much older than i am, he is not for me. i dont know how to walk away... my sister says to do it slowly but i cant even do that... what do i do for support or help?

2006-12-19 10:03:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Want to get down underneath the Christmas tree???!!

2006-12-19 10:03:12 · 10 answers · asked by Finally FREE!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 10:03:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was not abusive, she had the affair, we had had a good life together. Her child loves me and calls me all the time even though I am living out of state now. Why would she intentionally say things she knows hurt me when she has no reason to.

2006-12-19 10:02:49 · 20 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im in a relationship with a man who is addicted to looking at a** but he tells me I have nothing to worry about because he loves me and is with me and doesn't want anyone else. do i believe him?

2006-12-19 10:02:13 · 11 answers · asked by kamie1980 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a legitimate intellectual question and I ask that it be answered as such:

Given the marketplace with lecherous men who are willing to pay much extra for a virgin: have you ever fantasized (or even followed up on) selling yourself ONLY for your defloration? If so, and still virgin, what would be your minimum price? (Or what was it if you
did do it?). Would you do it/did you do it for your own financial gain or to help your family?

Again, this is a legitimate question (spurred by the recent case reported in New York of a woman in poverty's two daughters who agreed to sell their virginity to help the family finances).

2006-12-19 10:00:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 10:00:38 · 1 answers · asked by lil m 1 in Friends

2006-12-19 10:00:11 · 13 answers · asked by Sam C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to look up some information on a person that I am talking to, to see what kind of trouble they have been in,in the past. They want to talk to me but I don't trust anybody. And since I have a kid I what to know what kind of person Is going to be around her. Can anybody give me a website that will tell me about this person so that I will know if I shold talk to him or leave him alone?

2006-12-19 09:59:56 · 7 answers · asked by ladyashlea2004 1 in Singles & Dating

because i want popular girls that really are cool and like me and have good clothes like wear wut older teens wear .

2006-12-19 09:59:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Eg, Man: What's a polar bear weigh?
Woman: Don't know.
Man: Neither do I, but it broke the ice. Do you fancy a drink?

Can you better that? And ladies what would your reply to that one be?

2006-12-19 09:59:06 · 14 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have our own home, and his parents have a key for emergency purposes or for when we're out of town and we ask them to water the plants. They have a habit of walking into the house whenever they feel like it though and its now to the point where they let themselves into the house when we're at work and they snoop through our belongings and change things in our home to suit what they think looks better. We've asked them to stop this and they continually say that since they are parents those boundaries don't apply to them.

Has anyone else experienced this and if so how did you approach it without causing a big conflict over it? We don't want them to feel like they can never come over for a visit, but we'd like it if they kept their visits to times when we're actually there.

PS: We've thought of changing the locks or getting a chain with a key for across the door for when we're out, but then that would defeat the purpose of them having a key if theres an emergency.

2006-12-19 09:58:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So I've been dating this guy about 5 months and I'm starting to have all these crazy feelings....like I wanna be with him 24/7....if Im not with him I'm thinking about him. When we are intimate its more than just sex and after I feel close to him and sometimes I almost catch myself wanting to say I love you......but I don't bc Im afraid of what the outcome might be. What should I do? I wanna spend more time with him and be with him. Im not even sure what he classifies me as....I can tell he cares about me and likes me but I don't know if he loves me or wants to get more serious.

2006-12-19 09:57:26 · 3 answers · asked by a1980 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 09:57:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 09:56:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 2 children and have been away from their dad for a few years, we didn't part on good terms and rarely see eye to eye, this often results in the children not seeing him from time to time, we fight a lot about stupid things, i want them to have a relationship with him and he wants this as well but he says he hates me and this is what causes the trouble, yet if he gets the chance he is very friendly to me telling me all about whats going on with him and asking about me, he will then start a fight for no reason out of the blue and never tell me why, after all thats gone on i still have feelings for him and want to keep my distance from him so that these will fade and so the children will see him consistently. Yet if i suggest him dealing with someone else when taking the children he never sticks to it, he keeps having conversations with me about our own lives and i want it to stop but he doesn't listen when i tell him this, i don't want to cause a rift at xmas. Can any1 advise me?

2006-12-19 09:56:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Plus if they want it they can just go pay cash for it?

2006-12-19 09:56:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Every time that I am around a guy that I like, I seem to get kind of mean - and I don't mean to! Guys have called me mean before. How do I get around this, and get to where I feel comfortable around him, and not like I have to try and be perfect every second.
Believe me, it's stressful!!!

Help!?!

2006-12-19 09:56:00 · 11 answers · asked by Laurie 1 in Singles & Dating

I had an affair with a man from my past. We went to the same university 18 years ago and he contacted me about a year ago. We have so much in common. Although we don't see eachother much we are in constant contact. We get along great, we laugh, we give eachother moral support. We are great friends but we are both married to other people and we both have children. Our spouses do not know about our friendship or of the affair(I have never met his wife) How can I stay friends with him? how do I fight the desire and temptation? We both know ending the sexual relationship is the best thing for both of us and our families but I need suggestions as to how to do it while maintaining our friendship.

2006-12-19 09:55:55 · 25 answers · asked by R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

her breathe smells really bad. but i can't tell her because i don't want to embarrass her. but it seems to keep getting worse each day. how do i tell her without hurting her feelings?

2006-12-19 09:55:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I used to be best friends with this girl, but we haven't been "best friends" for almost 5 years. There's no friction between us though. I want something special for her besides being a bridesmaid. Any suggestions?

2006-12-19 09:55:26 · 4 answers · asked by Christine 1 in Weddings

2006-12-19 09:55:11 · 15 answers · asked by Rachel T. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-19 09:55:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating