ok i havent been a relationship for months now and i can hang out w/ all my guy friends and just play around..but i guess im not happy i didnt get the guy that i wanted and no one has asked me out...how can i get over it and stop chasing after guys and have them come to me..i mean i know for a fact the right guy will come around but it seems like i cant wait any longer?how can i look at being single in a..good way?? Why do i hate it so much (being single)?? will Mr. right ever come??
2006-12-19 10:04:40 · 9 answers · asked by LC...<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just wait because if u choosed a guy because u want anyone and by hurry way u will choose the wrong guy and after that he will be bad with u and u will fight each other all the time
just wait the right time dont loss the hope who know may after two days u will find him ask u to be with him
2006-12-19 10:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bothered by the tone of your question more than the substance. One person is NEVER "fixed" or "made whole" by a relationship with another. If you are incomplete as a single, you will be incomplete as part of a couple. Mr right will come--perhaps when you least expect it and from a place you may not expect. My suggestion is to concentrate on being the best person you can be, happy, healthful, interested, interesting and work on being a good friend. I'm sorry you hate being single. It's not fun that way is it?
2006-12-19 10:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry...he'll come.
Im so done chasing guys because like you..I ALWAYS get let down.
So perk up...being single will always have its ups and downs. But if you keep focusing on the "downs" you'll always be sad and upset as to why you can't get a man. Focus on the ups...don't be in a rush, be a free spirit and have fun.
Yes, its nice to have a boyfriend. You're time will come
2006-12-19 10:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy_Goosy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, Mr. right will eventually come and save you, and he will come find you when you are not expecting it at all!! How can you make men come running to you.... well, act like you dont want to be with them. Be their friend and all, but dont make yourself too available, do not throw yourself at guys, then they just see you as clingy and rather pathetic. Just enjoy the single life!! Go to parties make out with random boys and just have a good time with your friends, mr. right will find you
2006-12-19 10:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Right will come and when he does, you will know it. Just have fun right now and have lots of boyfriends. It sounds to me like you are insecure with yourself, but you do not need a guy to make you complete. You need to like yourself and be a secure young lady and when Mr. Right comes along, you will be ready.
2006-12-19 10:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "The Missing Piece Meets the Big O." It wont take long and I think it may address some of your issues.
2006-12-19 10:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Squirtle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on being smart, articulate, quick thinking, in good physical condition, develope some interesting hobbies, be a little fashion conscious, learn how to flirt and please a man.
Then send me an email.
2006-12-19 10:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look closely never know, his just below your nose and you can't notice it,or yuo,ve already had him and you didn't give him a chance?
2006-12-19 10:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAYER!
2006-12-19 10:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by REV MCD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋