Every time that I am around a guy that I like, I seem to get kind of mean - and I don't mean to! Guys have called me mean before. How do I get around this, and get to where I feel comfortable around him, and not like I have to try and be perfect every second.
Believe me, it's stressful!!!
Help!?!
2006-12-19 09:56:00 · 11 answers · asked by Laurie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well start flirting tell yourself "DONT BE MEAN" i was just like you a few years ago and trust me it dosnt help being mean to the guy you like!
if you have any ? or need some one to talk to email me ok?
2006-12-19 09:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you have admitted here in front of the whole world that you are mean, you know it ... therefore 10% of your task before you has been completed. It will take 90% mental to overcome it. You can do!
As soon as you feel yourself slipping into that wolf mode, fight the urge to be mean off. Be nice and gentle! Most boys don't like a girl who is mean and ugly!
Good luck
2006-12-19 10:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you act like yourself around him? There was a guy i liked once and i tried so hard to NOT be myself and in the end it made me look mean because i was trying to hide myself so much.
Not only that, but guys make it so easy to be mean to them sometimes! lol
2006-12-19 09:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll bet you like to talk a lot and you get yourself in trouble trying to be the center of attention, right? Just keep you mouth quiet as you can unless you are certain of what it is you want to say. I realize like all women, being quiet for too long could result in a buid up of pressure that could lead to your head exploding... but it might be worth the risk!
(I apologize for that but I just couldn't resist !)
2006-12-19 10:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you need to talk to someone and put the relationship stuff on hold. Work on yourself first and find out why you're doing this in the 1st place. It'll be impossible to hold back "mean" all the time. You've already found out how stressfull it is to pretend to be something you are'nt
2006-12-19 10:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by remy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh my god this happens to me ALL THE TIME!!! all i do is try to act like i am around my friends and just act like he is one of the "guys" but still try to treat him like you like him without punching the daylights out of him... <<3
2006-12-19 09:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dino love♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to be yourself.its the best way.it is a very good test also,if someone really likes you.he will accept you as you are
2006-12-19 10:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Pithon4all 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need a spanking.
Bare-bottom w/ a ping-pong paddle.
2006-12-19 09:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just relax. You don't have to be "on" all the time. Let the "real you" be known.
2006-12-19 09:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my god! You are way too worried about what people think about you.
2006-12-19 09:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋