I need to find out if there are any services that are free to see if your spouse/ boy/girlfriend is cheating. I dont have any solid proof, but i THINK my fiance' is cheating. I love him, but I wont be played for a fool. PLEASE help me !!!!
2006-12-19 10:04:41 · 25 answers · asked by La Princessa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tanya,
I know alot of people who frown about looking at services. I am truly embarrassed that I did. Would I do it again. I don't know but I really think I have learned my lesson. I never once went through my ex's wallet or mail. I was with him 30 years. So why shouldn't I respect someone elses privacy. And remember what goes around comes arround.
The only thing that has helped me a little is that the services were open to the public. Anyone can join them and these people put there names, faces and photos out there. But even that is just an excuse.
Try not to think he is cheating but guard your heart in case he is.
It doesn't hurt to start putting a wall up...
2006-12-19 10:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, unless you were at that Cheaters show that's probably it. I don't think there is free services for a PI You can do it yourself if your clever and smart. You have all his info and are his wife. Check his cell phone bill, bank statements, text and voice mails, emails, and even install spyware on the computer. Use a friends car and disguise yourself and follow him if you want more info. You have to pretend like you don't know anything and keep your mouth closed and your eyes and ears open. Don't confront him with little evidence or he will call you crazy and stupid. Do it when you have more than enough. It sounds crazy to do all this but if this is what you need then so be it!
2006-12-19 18:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing like that is free to my knowledge. Have some friends follow him around, see how that works. When people cheat, it has a strange way of being found out....be patient, if signs keep on, then break it off with him. You don't want to even start planning a wedding if he's not faithful to you. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-19 18:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to your fiance. It is free, and you might find something out. You are not yet married, but you are on that path. You are still in the dating phase, even though you've committed yourselves to marriage. This means you must trust each other and honor each other. If you both cannot do that prior to marriage now is the time to discover and realize that. Take the opportunity to pause and reflect. Is this the guy?
2006-12-19 18:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by twicewise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could always hire a private detective.( but that costs money) Or you could have your friends that your fiancess does not know about conveniently hang out where he usually hangs out. Or, you could just confront him and tell him that you have the felling or have heard rumours that he is cheating on you. I hope that he is not cheating on you!! I hope you find out the answers that you need to know. Happy Holidays!!
2006-12-19 18:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by Manny P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not free. BUT, pay attention to your feelings. Even if he is NOT cheating you are not trusting him. What's going on with that? Don't marry him until you trust.
2006-12-19 18:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by Brent 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get someone you know and trust to tail the guy, or hire someone if you really want to know its' worth the cash, you do not want to invest your future in someone who is already on the hunt when u r not even married yet,
good luck
2006-12-19 18:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need any services to find out info. You can do this yourself. Call upon your network of friends and family to help you.
2006-12-19 18:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust your partner wholeheartedly if you are going to marry him. Forget agencies. Follow your heart. You have to either trust him completely or leave. This kind of suspicion and doubt will ruin it otherwise.
2006-12-19 18:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by helly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he uses the computer a lot there are a lot of things that you can download to his computer to monitor his actions. Try Spectra. It's about $100
2006-12-19 18:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋