Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

If my relationship goes belly up in 2007 if I had the guts I would love to get away. I am nearly 40 I have spent my life putting others first. I am not happy with my achievements so far and dont want to waste another 40 years. If you were faced with such a dilema what would you do and why - or have you done it, were you happy with the results?

2006-12-19 00:53:57 · 1 answers · asked by Helen C 4 in Singles & Dating

Other than sex what would be a good gift for my husband? Remember I don't have any money. I'm a stay at home mom and he is the one who works. So what would be a good idea for a gift?

2006-12-19 00:53:24 · 19 answers · asked by Amanda A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i hv been dating this guy for 5yrs..hez in a diff country now..the prob is hez juz too busy always..and when he is free and whn we chat..our conversations are so casual...he says i love you..but i somehow dont feel it..i think we are growing apart...he doesnt want to talk about it...if i talk anything about the relationship..he says im nagging and making his life a hell..

he told me right in my face that he is taking me for granted..i dont know if he really meant it..or he said that coz he is angry..?we are still hanging on to this relationship hoping thing will get better..i know he loves me..juz dont knw what to do...plz help

2006-12-19 00:53:21 · 6 answers · asked by sweetiepie123 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you mind your gf/wife earn more money than you or live into her appartment?

2006-12-19 00:50:32 · 30 answers · asked by AnneMarie 3 in Weddings

i like them with nice firm bananas, vanilla, chocolate and strawberry ice cream with hot fudge sauce and warm caramel poured over it and topped with whipped cream and three sweet juicy cherries on top....makes me drool just thinking about it....

2006-12-19 00:49:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is 'i am sorry but i am ill and going home from work now, so will have to call off tonightxx' a really bad excuse?

Or am i reading into it too much? supposed to be going out tonight!

2006-12-19 00:48:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where do you go ...be it for real...or just in your mind...;0)

2006-12-19 00:47:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the past few days me and my bstfriend were hanging out,listening to music,laughing and then this guy just joined us in. he's sweet...then we had fun. then b friends w/this guy. And then the ff.days i had observed that me n my bstfrnd were starting to like him but he doe'snt know. Still we had fun w/this guy.He's fun to be with and his romantic. But i think now he knows that we like him and now he wont hang out w/ us anymore. I'ts like he's shy or something . I sometimes caught him looking at me and then when i look at me he just turn away. And he wont talk to us anymore. i just dont get it.=( is he angry??? what do u think?

2006-12-19 00:46:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because I used to have a crush, and people say she's too old for me (juzt 2 yrs. older), but I still like her, then, suddenly, one day I juzt *poof!* the feeling is gone, comes and goes until today, why?

2006-12-19 00:45:41 · 8 answers · asked by Paul 1 in Friends

especially when it comes to answering questions on y?

2006-12-19 00:45:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'v been with this guy for 5 monts and i whant to leave him for anoter boy from anoter city........but i realy like my bf.........but i like the oter guy to.........i don't know what to do.........help........thanks

2006-12-19 00:45:16 · 4 answers · asked by frunza3220 1 in Singles & Dating

i stopped calling my ex and im giving her space to work things out for herself. But i did act very clingy in the beginning after we broke up. I am stronger now and i am dealing with this situation better. But is it too late for me to not come out across as being pressed. She knows that i love her and i know she loves me too and i want get a second chance to prove to her that i can make her feel important in my life and i want to be more involved in what shes doing(reasons y we broke up). I dont know if i have a second chance since i did act kinda of clingy in the beginning of our break up. I am waiting for her to finish with her entry exams right now before i make a decision to move on or not. Tell me what my chances are if you can. Appreciate any feedback i can get. Thanks.

2006-12-19 00:43:58 · 14 answers · asked by J Z 1 in Singles & Dating

a partner you have a child with but things are not going to well,you have reservations and serious conflicting emotions regarding your personal relationship and the general out come of the situation is not what you would wish for. when do you make a decesion to give the relationship up with the time you've known each other and the memories you've shared(and would still like to share)?

the hurt you feel when all is not going the way you would love it to,when you are not so sure of the comitment of your partner to your relationship, the dedication he promises to give and never coming through on his promises.the questions you ask your self with regard to your own reliability as a partner and never realy have a true answer!!!!!!!

2006-12-19 00:42:34 · 7 answers · asked by mellowood 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-19 00:42:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love a guy since 2 years. we both are completely devoted to eachother.i love her so much and at same time i love my parents too. my parents know about him and they are strictly against of it.(his cast is different from mine). i can't decieve my parents , i can't raise any step against my parents. this time they are searching for my marriege with another boy of same cast. i'm so worried , what should i do? without my love i'm nothig. i'll be devastated if i go far from him.plz plz help me plzz!

2006-12-19 00:41:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I are to be married in July. We recently moved in together. On Sunday he told me that he is not sure if he wants to get married. He said he loves me and wants to be with me. But, he is afraid that it won't work out or he won't be happy. He said he is also afraid of getting a divorce. He said he isn't sure if he wants a forever with anyone. That it's a big deal and he's afraid that it's not what he wants. I chalk it up to a case of pre-wedding jitters. I told him that it's okay to be scared and that I'm scared too. I told him no one knows if it will work but you have to take that chance. He said he doesn't know if he wants to take that chance. I told him that I would stand by him while he worked through this. He has seemed fine since our talk. But, I'm so afraid that he isn't going to want to marry me now. Any advice? If you had pre-wedding jitters, how did you calm them for yourself or your significant other?

2006-12-19 00:40:35 · 13 answers · asked by Kimberly P 2 in Weddings

i really need this advice, please help me!!

2006-12-19 00:40:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 00:40:18 · 8 answers · asked by shine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

bad sides your gf/bf.......

2006-12-19 00:38:39 · 14 answers · asked by Mario J 1 in Singles & Dating

Most of you answered before that I should move away. I can't. I have nowhere to go. I am seeking suggestions for some other things to do.
My story:
Does the MISERY of being left ever go away?
My husband left me and three small children to move three blocks away for anther woman. He is well known so I can't just not think of him. He is in the newspaper often. I hear about him and his new woman. I can't move home because it was destroyed in the hurricane that hit Mississippi. So I am stuck on the East Coast and want to die and am seriously considering it. Any help? Anyone?

2006-12-19 00:38:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend (we have known each other since August) and while I think she is a nice person, she ALWAYS has some issue or another. Right now she lost her job, and the guy she was living with kicked her out -- so where is she -- sleeping in MY living room. She has a baby that she has part of the time -- it's the reason I let her come over when he kicked her out -- but how do I ask her to leave. She has no where to go and no one to help her, but I'm NOT her family and really don't want to deal with all of this.

I live in South Florida -- does anyone know of any shelters or help services that can assist her?

2006-12-19 00:37:50 · 19 answers · asked by K D 1 in Friends

dude this one guy that i liked slept with his sister not once, not twice, but three effing times! what do you think? personally, i think it's gross

2006-12-19 00:37:43 · 36 answers · asked by Chelsea 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex boyfriend broke up a two year relationship a year and a half ago. we both went our separate ways (but remained friends) and started dating other people but i ended my relationship because i still had feelings for my ex. i had wrote him a letter in october saying that i was still in love with him and i want to try and work it out and then i proceeded to tell him that if i get no response i would leave him alone. i kept my word since the day i sent out the letter i havent been in contact with him. this past wednesday he came to my house to return something that i havent needed for two years and he stayed for a little while to visit. now he has done this in the past has come over to return things that i didnt even notice were missing. he went as far as coming to my house to bring me back a hairtie. do you think that he is using these things as excuses to come and see me and check up on me? please let me know what you think.....thanks

2006-12-19 00:37:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 00:37:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-19 00:36:54 · 12 answers · asked by sha sha 1 in Singles & Dating

and he does not want anything to do with u or his unborn child. And I still love him but he change his phone number on me. And he does not email me back when I write to him and it been a month seance we broke up ? and there is this guy that realy likes me and i dont know if i like him. I mean I could like him But I dont want to start anything with this guy that like me. Bec what if in a few monthsmy babys daddy come back for me so should I be with this man that like me and see if we go out a few more time to see if I like him?or should I not In case if my Baby father come back for me . so what do u think I should do ?

2006-12-19 00:35:04 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand those emoticons is a pinch rude..ouch!

2006-12-19 00:31:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 00:31:20 · 12 answers · asked by persianooo 1 in Singles & Dating

well i was sitting in my business class and well i was being a note passer and well one of his friends (cesar) said "hey melissa pass this to trevor" so i did and well his other friend (hannah) said "r u two going out?" i shook my head no while trevor had a disapointed look on his face. and then she says like right after "he wishs that he could" and well he shakes his ya with the same look on his face. well idk wheather to believe him or not but b4 this even happend he has been like looking at me asking me dumb questions like "wats the answer in #3" or w/e. so should i believe him? or not? ok well b4 this cesar asked to borow my phone so i let him and well he starts to text some1 and im like "ok who u txting?" and he said "my friend" and so i let him carry on so then he gives me back my phone and well i checked wat he sent and well he put 'i luv u trevor!!!' and well then comes lunch so im standing in line and well some1 tapps me on the sholder and i turned around and its trevor. so..

2006-12-19 00:30:46 · 11 answers · asked by *Living a {{ღяøM@N!Cღ}} Tragity* 5 in Singles & Dating

My son father and I are not together, not married, not living together. I am the one that takes care of my son without any help for him but he wants to transfer his school because he want to take my son away from me. My son is all that I have and I am scared that my son father is going to try to take him out of school without my permission. Please tell me what I should do?

2006-12-19 00:30:19 · 23 answers · asked by bigbeautiful1977 1 in Family