i stopped calling my ex and im giving her space to work things out for herself. But i did act very clingy in the beginning after we broke up. I am stronger now and i am dealing with this situation better. But is it too late for me to not come out across as being pressed. She knows that i love her and i know she loves me too and i want get a second chance to prove to her that i can make her feel important in my life and i want to be more involved in what shes doing(reasons y we broke up). I dont know if i have a second chance since i did act kinda of clingy in the beginning of our break up. I am waiting for her to finish with her entry exams right now before i make a decision to move on or not. Tell me what my chances are if you can. Appreciate any feedback i can get. Thanks.
2006-12-19 00:43:58 · 14 answers · asked by J Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is too bad for you and it sounds like it was a very difficult time for both of you. If she is doing "entry exams" then she does not need the added pressure of thinking about your relationship. I would do something sweet like send her a good luck card and write in it that you are thinking about her and wish her good luck for her exams. Then this is the hard bit, you will have to leave it up to her. You have tried to talk to her and you are sure she has feelings for you still. Show her how mature you can be and let her come to you.
2006-12-19 00:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. You do still have a chance if you love each other, but this is something you'll have to sort out with her. Relationships involve two people! If she needs more space, give it to her, but don't wait around if she's obviously moved on. You don't want to break your own heart needlessly. If she agrees to a second chance make sure that she knows that you are the one who is also giving her a second chance to help make things work!
2006-12-19 08:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by gene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be involved with more of the things she does...if you can't, explain your reasons and maybe she will reconsider. the most important thing is have a talk with her and tell her that she needs to play her right role as a woman and support you too. it has to be a 50/50 relationship...don't be so clingy and just relax so she can see the new you
2006-12-19 08:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by dat_lil_angel08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've made great changes, realized your mistakes and that's a first step to rectifying any 'damage'. I dont think its too late at all. You say you love her and she loves you too and you show maturity in thought by your wait and now you know what you what you have to do to improve on your relationship. so when her exams are over, i bet you'll have a great relationship going on again. all da best
2006-12-19 08:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by girlfunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a mighty big chance my friend! Let her finish her exams and talk to her. Im sure you're gonna get back together
2006-12-19 08:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES..it will be..now,if U do not open up Ur heart ..to her..@ the earliest..even at very next second..as this will indeed make her happy & free from supressed unspoken feelings..!Let the feelings.in real spirit..be shower to each-other..,as u said..both are loving each-other[matter of some misunderstanding..& ..EGO..sometimes..,spoil everything.].so do it at fast..but at the same time..with great care..for not to insult -hurt her Ego.. !!Man has to come forward..for such matter..to win the game..life..of love..! Seeds of love..as u say..,are already rippen in the farm of her heart..then,now simply NURRISH them with water of love..timely..@ earliest please..!
Love is not simply..to look at each-other...but ,it is to look..TOGETHER..in the direction of ur Goal!!
ALL the best..!!
2006-12-19 09:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by prem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say just to wait a little while. if you truly love her, its going to be a while before you can date another girl without thinking about her. i would try to get another chance with her since you love her
2006-12-19 08:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by sasha_miller_2008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am reluctant to provide my opinion. I am concerned that my answer may be incorrect and that you may "cling" to it.
Seriously, my only thought is that you should be having this conversation with your ex girlfriend instead of with strangers on this YA! board.
2006-12-19 08:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were my boyfriend I might give you another change if I loved you. Good luck in all you do!
2006-12-19 08:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be late, when you are dead.
But now... I wish you a great happy life! Don't say, "it is late". Just do what your heart tells you, - and smile.. :)
2006-12-19 08:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋