a partner you have a child with but things are not going to well,you have reservations and serious conflicting emotions regarding your personal relationship and the general out come of the situation is not what you would wish for. when do you make a decesion to give the relationship up with the time you've known each other and the memories you've shared(and would still like to share)?
the hurt you feel when all is not going the way you would love it to,when you are not so sure of the comitment of your partner to your relationship, the dedication he promises to give and never coming through on his promises.the questions you ask your self with regard to your own reliability as a partner and never realy have a true answer!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 00:42:34 · 7 answers · asked by mellowood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there is always doubt,, we wonder if we will be happy single or with someone else,, best thing to do it a divorce or not divorce list,, things you love and things you hate,
always is sad for the child, but there was a time when you thought you loved your partner,
you always have memories,, always remember good times and the bad, seems like in the months that follow when you struggle a bit you remember all the good times,, and need to remember the bad times to get past the sadness that creeps in at times too,
2006-12-19 00:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question, and one that you may have to answer yourself. It's emotionally trying when you're faced with all these mountains ... what you have to ask yourself is if you're willing to live with this person and what they are doing. People can't change other people. And your partner may be comfortable enough with you to show his 'true colors'. Having a child together makes this situation even more delicate, but you have to do what is best for you and your child. If you are not getting along, arguing often, etc., it may be best for everyone to separate. Your child can sense stress and tension, and it can start to affect him/her. What's most important is that you and your child are happy; if you're not, you need to reassess your relationship. Best of luck!
2006-12-19 08:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Duckie314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..talk with ur partner.. and be serious tell them the way u are feeling..tell them u want a happy relationship and ur not feeling happy ur feeling hurt..... but if u really just lost feelings for him then if ur 100% sure it wont work out there's no point in staying with him..but if there's still hope talk to him i promise u if ur serious things will get better and if they dont then u have to choose if u wanna be in a bad relationship..only u can decide..
2006-12-19 08:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like things are not going so good for you. I would say now is a pretty good time. Just make sure that the child doesn't suffer because of your relationship conflicts. Good Luck!
2006-12-19 08:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by sherry s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is time to end the relationship when you have to ask the question. Deep down inside you know its time to call an end to it
2006-12-19 08:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Deep down you know best. Take into consideration of your child feeling when you give up the relationship, unless your child is too young to understand. Be prepare of wat the future behold you when you have to raise your child on your own. Gd Luck!
2006-12-19 08:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-one can really answer the question for you, you yourself should and can answer this... If it makes you feel better and much more relieved, break up, if you really love her/him, then keep up, tell her, talk about it, sort it out...
Truth is, ONLY YOU can decide for yourself...
2006-12-19 08:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Paul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋