Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

i want to know how many dis-satisfied relationships are around, people you have to be honest and the reason, come on spill all your beans!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WARNING:
REMEMBER WHAT EVER YOU TYPE IN HERE STAYS ON YOUR PROFILE, SO BE CAREFUL JUST IN CASE YOUR PARTNER READS IT,

AND FOR THE PEOPLE THAT THERE PARTNERS READ THERE ANSWERS

NO

"ID NEVER CHANGE MY MAN"
OR
"I COULDNT LOVE ANOTHER MAN"

AND SO ON.

2006-12-19 01:57:59 · 17 answers · asked by stef 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Babe, babydoll etc are all so generic, what can I call her as a little pet name? any ideas, I just can't think?

2006-12-19 01:57:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl about a year ago. She is probebly the most amazing woman i have ever met. There is only one problem. Her parents don't like me and they don't even want to give me the chance to meet them. They won't let me see her or spend anytime with her. I am still able to talk to her on the phone though. It makes our relationship really hard to maintain. I'm always skeptical because i feel like shes hiding something from me. It makes me do things that i normally would'nt do. I honestly really care a lot about her, I just want her to take that step and come to me. Why does she let her parents control her like that? Should I just ignore her? Im afraid if i do that, she'll marry the guy her parents want her to marry. Please help, I really cant sleep or do anything right, and i never in my help felt this way about anyone.

2006-12-19 01:57:08 · 6 answers · asked by trigger_silence 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy that works at this local copy store, he's quite an attractive guy (from my view) and i noticed from the first time i went there about 6 months ago that he was kinda interested. i began going more often to the store to make photo copies and print outs and some days he would look at me more than others. (im not the make up and mini skirt type, you usually see me in regular jeans and shirt and im a regular shape, not heavy, not skinny) so time passed and since im with my bf for over 4 1/2 yrs my intentions from the beginning were none.

so the other day i went back to the store to print out some project posters. while i was at the store my bf had gone to buy some pizza next door. the guy had only seen me, minutes later while he was doing the job, my bf came in, the guy saw us talk and it was obvious my bf was with me. that second i noticed the guy began acting different, he looked at me more often, he began whistleing, made noises on purpose... so my questino is..

2006-12-19 01:56:23 · 7 answers · asked by sueet2b 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a resturant GM and works with females age 17 to say early twenties.I am an attractive 30 year old women, wondering if he knows he is lucky or if he measures me by the way a 17 year old looks? I also wonder if he is normal choosing this line of work? He doesn't seem to try and go corporate, and doesn't use his college degree. He only makes 40,000 so I know he could find something else. I just don't understand why he would choose to spend 50 hours a week this way unless he was strange?

2006-12-19 01:54:48 · 16 answers · asked by sky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Boys: Sufyan, Putra, Nigel, Danial?

Girls: Pei Shan, Syahirah, Diyanah or Suhailah?

I really gotta know which two names match best together..

PS: Not baby names, so don't mention that they're too ethnic or hard to pronounce, just help me choose yeah..Thanks!!

2006-12-19 01:52:28 · 4 answers · asked by Jayden 3 in Singles & Dating

i love my friends boy friend i can kell my self for him he is so cute and i have to get him dont take this wrong but youhave to undrestand why i have to get him i cry every day for him every day people so are you going to help me? thank you any whay note i think he likes me but only god know that

2006-12-19 01:51:48 · 23 answers · asked by walaa a 1 in Friends

This is just something I"m curious about b/c I've noticed it here and well just about everywhere else.
If someone gets involved with a married man. All the blame goes to her, she is called names and everything. What about the man? The woman obviously didn't hold a gun to his head and make him cheat.

Just curisious as to why people are so quick to blame her and call her names instead of saying leave the cheating sob?

2006-12-19 01:51:06 · 22 answers · asked by his wife 4 in Marriage & Divorce

the best times of my life have been with her wether were just sitting holding eachother watching a movie or sitting playing cell phone games together laughing. but i know that its real and i cant loose her cus when im holding her hand all my worries go away and when u find someone that does that for you YOU CAN JUST LET THEM GO!. LOVE IS NEVER LETTING GO.

2006-12-19 01:49:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She says that all men go through mid-life crisis between 38 and 51 and cheat. She says that their wives know but won't acknowledge it or they know and just write it off like an man would menopause moods. She says that a woman will not know only if she is not very smart or is very good at deceiving herself. Do you believe this?

2006-12-19 01:49:21 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is an arabian &.. basically we are from diff country, diff race and diff culture...
his mother never agreed for us to get married...
but my husband sticked to his own decision to marry me..
soon we will be goin back to his hometown and gotta stay there for quite long time..
the thing is his mother never likes me..!! whut should i do!!!....plus im not her "dream daughter in law"
alot of thing i gotta prepare to face her...
1st she cant speak english..only arabic
2nd i don cook arabic food~!!
gosh! any tips??

2006-12-19 01:47:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Have a problem with how i dress?and have the nerve to say nasty remarks about it too there children?This has gotten down to my son who is know embarrassed to be seen with me at school!I am really pissed off!!I am not and old mom at 35 and i like to dress fashionably and have a good body i like to show off not too overly for most part.My two daughters think its cool and hubby loves it .I dont wear anything too over the top for the most part mabe the milf t-shirt on tank once in a while?My son even asked that i not come school to help out with the other moms ? or pick him up from school?

2006-12-19 01:46:36 · 16 answers · asked by Kelly V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I tend to look up to people who are older than me, I have recently gotten out of relationship with woman 11 years older than me and we don't talk anymore. Now I envy people that get to go for a drink with her, it's mad it's not like she's Keira Knightley or anything she is divorced with 3 kids!!!!

2006-12-19 01:46:29 · 5 answers · asked by erer d 1 in Singles & Dating

Well this guy has told me he really likes me and wants me to go out with him. But back then I wasn't sure so I kept putting him off. Now I realize I have feelings for him, but haven't told him yet. For some reasons he told me last weekend that he is going out with another girl. So I said oh! you have a girlfriend now. He responded that he went on a date with a girl doesn't make her his girlfriend.

So in the past few days, I have been calling him, but he never answers. I will see him in a few hours, should I say something? What's up with that?

2006-12-19 01:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-19 01:45:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends and I were discussing the fact that you see far fewer black women with white men than vice versa.
How many of you have/would date a white guy.
And if you haven't do you think it's because white guys may be intimidated to ask?

2006-12-19 01:42:32 · 10 answers · asked by ksmpmjoll 3 in Singles & Dating

ps--please don't be a lame a** who answers a question with a question. it's too damn predictable. thanks.

2006-12-19 01:42:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-19 01:41:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a question to all married people. I am a little confused. I am happily married for 12 years now. I feel bad though because I have been dreaming of my ex. After I wake up, I still am thinking about him. Does anyone else do this? I have not even seen or spoke to my ex in over 13 years and there is no way I would ever want to go back to him. Why am I dreaming about him?

2006-12-19 01:40:53 · 21 answers · asked by floridagirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I already posted this question before, the respondents seem to be ignorant to what I am saying...
I have had bad relationships with women, and sex was a problem with a few. Now that I realize the whole penis size debate is all about loose vaginas, tight vaginas, loose vagina needs big penis, averaage vagina is great for average vagina; how do I overcome my fears of findind another woman?
Helpful information that is needed to be read...

1. I am not insecure of my equipment.

2. I am afraid of the past repeating itself.

3. I know how to use the clit.

4. I know how to use the G-Spot

Then why am I so afraid to start anything with anyone else?? Is this a natural feeling? I refuse to gaiin emotions for someone; sexually if this person is not truly satisfied with me, by all means. Physical, moral, spiritual, intellectually, etc...
I want some feed back into how I can erase these bad feelings, the thoughts. Everybody is different, somewhere there is my woman, now i am afraid.

2006-12-19 01:39:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no cheats ,,,is love in fairy tails or it exit in this dammm world.....where money is everything

2006-12-19 01:38:24 · 11 answers · asked by ronny c 1 in Family

The girl i am planning to married to called to tell me that she wishes to come to me but i should come to take her there after seeing her parents. i live several miles from her working in a company for a good future. As an accountant, my company an oil company depends souly on me for so many things and they only give leave when you are 1year or more in the company . what should i do i am now 6 months in the company.

2006-12-19 01:37:56 · 10 answers · asked by Apelete M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy and we kinda made out the other night and I think he likes me but he has a girlfriend. The thing is we are in Arkansas and his girlfriend is in Louisiana....does that count?

2006-12-19 01:37:45 · 31 answers · asked by queenbee0687 3 in Singles & Dating

this girl, she is kinda my sister's friend, not exactly best friend, but one of my sister's friends... but anyhoo... I like this girl, and she likes me a bit... but she is going out with someone... I think she might break up with him, but I am not sure, so that is where you come in... My sister said that she would kill me if this girl dumped her boyfriend for me, so what can I do if she does dump him and we end up going out?

2006-12-19 01:37:18 · 9 answers · asked by Beau Young 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 35 years old...I have one friend and I have known him for 12 years...it takes me a long time to warm up to people....I am so shy around groups of people that I actually have panic attacks... I seem to do ok if I am just one on one but even then unless I get asked a question directly I can't speak..the problem I am having is I recently moved to a new town..I moved away from my best friend and moved here to be with my fiance as he grew up here and had a good job etc... anyway the problem I am having is he is extremely popular...he has a ton of friends...they are always getting together for parties and football on sunday and cards and everything..I always end up in the bathroom with a panic attack... my fiance doesn't know how to help me and he wants to stop going out if it will help me.. I don't want him to give that up for me.... I want so bad to be a part of his life but I don't know how any suggestions?

2006-12-19 01:36:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father is an alcoholic person who only brought pain and sadness to our family. My parents had an awful divorce 10 years ago. My brother lives with my dad, so if I invite only him, he won't go because of my father. If I don't invite neither my brother nor my dad, my mom won't go because of my brother.
However, my mom already said that she will not sit on the same table as my dad, in case he's invited.

This is so confusing ! Please help !

Another point to consider is that I decided that I will walk down the aisle by myself. If he's invited and goes to the party, he will be for me just like any other guest. It sounds bitter, but even 10 years later I can barely look at his face. In the other hand I'd be self conscious if I don't invite him at all to my wedding.

Am I contradicting myself ? Did anybody go through a similar situation ?
This has been harder to decide than the gown of my dreams !

2006-12-19 01:35:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

HI MET THISE GIRL ABOUT 2 WEEKS. SO WE WENT OUT FOR DRINKS. SE WE SLEPT AT HER FRIENDS HOUSE. SO WE STARTED TO KISS. I HAVE A BOFRIEND I KNOW I AM CHEATING. BUT I LIKE HER A LOTT. I SEE HER EVERY DAY. SHE WANT ME TO MAKE A MOVE AGAIN. SHE DID MAKE A MOVE AT ME SO I LEFT. BUT TODY SHE MADE A MOVE AGAIN. WHAT TO I DO. AND NO I CANT HELP TO SEE HER AGAIN. SHE IS ALWAYS TOUCHING ME SO I TOUCH BACK. I KNOW IT IS WRONG. WHAT SHOULD I DO....

2006-12-19 01:35:32 · 12 answers · asked by Hotrod Hoender 4 in Singles & Dating

I saw ryan’s profile on my friends myspace. Me and ryan started talking on the phone and on mail. He never knew I found his profile Then he was coming home from college and I asked him if he wanted to go to dinner. He said yes. He never knew that I knew his best friend GB or the fact that I hooked up with him. So I bump into ryan at stop and shop and he asked me if we are still on for dinner. I said yes and he said he would call me…he never called me that week he was home. I emailed him asking him why he blew me off. I thought it was because he fond out I hooked up with his best friend. He said it was because he only had a few days to visit his friends and we just met on myspace and he would pick his friends over me. It wasn’t about his best friend…he didn’t even know I knew his best friend. But he did say “I still want to keep in touch” I haven’t heard from him and it's been six months…i left comments on his profile..but no response why would he say that if he doesn’t write to me?

2006-12-19 01:35:01 · 18 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 01:33:37 · 29 answers · asked by B 1 in Friends

As tradition, my boyfriends boss has taken him away for a short trip every year for the past 10 years. he does it for him as a christmas gift. This is the first year my boyfriend and i are together and i dont want to take that away from him. he is a very hard worker. We are going to take a trip together in a few months also..do u think its good for him to go?? or should i insist he doesnt? is it good for a couple to sometimes be apart like that???

2006-12-19 01:33:34 · 25 answers · asked by coco 2 in Singles & Dating