I saw ryan’s profile on my friends myspace. Me and ryan started talking on the phone and on mail. He never knew I found his profile Then he was coming home from college and I asked him if he wanted to go to dinner. He said yes. He never knew that I knew his best friend GB or the fact that I hooked up with him. So I bump into ryan at stop and shop and he asked me if we are still on for dinner. I said yes and he said he would call me…he never called me that week he was home. I emailed him asking him why he blew me off. I thought it was because he fond out I hooked up with his best friend. He said it was because he only had a few days to visit his friends and we just met on myspace and he would pick his friends over me. It wasn’t about his best friend…he didn’t even know I knew his best friend. But he did say “I still want to keep in touch” I haven’t heard from him and it's been six months…i left comments on his profile..but no response why would he say that if he doesn’t write to me?
2006-12-19 01:35:01 · 18 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when he said 'i'll call you,' he might have meant it at the time, but then changed his mind, or something in his life changed. maybe he got a new girlfriend. maybe he decided he doesn't like you that much. maybe he's busy with school or work. maybe he's 'emotionally unavailable.'
sometimes if a person likes me, i feel this pressure to tell them what they want to hear so i don't hurt their feelings. i'll say 'we'll talk,' or 'we'll get together sometime.' but then a couple days later, i might not feel the same. men do this to women, but women do it to men just as much.
also if you're chasing after this guy too much, always bugging him to go out, it can come across as desperate, which is NOT attractive. if it's been six months, chances are he's NOT interested and you should let it go.
2006-12-19 02:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, men are men.. they always have excuses for evrything.I mean look at the bryt syd? If he dont call you,so wat..its either he doesnt want to see you or he's seeing someone. go out & date someone else..Ryan's not the only man in the world..believe me..ive been thru that and once you'll find someone better than Ryan..You would be glad that you just did.
2006-12-19 09:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by babylover_2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's been 6 months and he hasn't answered I think it's time to let it go. He doesn't want you and he more than likely found out you were with his bf. Guys are not going to keep that a secret. I am almost positive he knows you hooked up with him. Just move on and find someone else.
2006-12-19 09:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really sounds as though he has another relationship going he probably did not want to waste his time with something new guys always lie that is in they're nature dont let that make you feel crazy about what you did you are free you can do whatever or who ever you want i think you should move on though because that was 6 mnths ago dont keep trying to contact him it makes you look desperate him and his friend are probably laughing about you im not trying to make you feel bad but tighten up and act like a diva f*** a ***** for real
2006-12-19 09:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been six months, he's moved on. Forget about him, and move on as well. Besides, why would you want to be with a guy where you have the baggage of hooking up with his friend? Start fresh, find someone else.
2006-12-19 09:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sugar, you are not what HE expected. Move on to someone with a mutual attraction. Just because HE wasn't interested in you doesn't mean you aren't perfectfor someone else.
2006-12-19 09:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by amazedmaize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says that because he does not want to hurt your feelings...while he is around..he is a coward. And said to say he will not email you and if he just happens to months from now just to ask 'whats up'....just delete it....He does not care about you.
2006-12-19 09:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he would pick his friends over you, and you still want to talk to him? Oh, come on.
2006-12-19 09:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. He sounds like a jerk, I'm sorry. If he's gonna pick and choose, I wouldn't worry about a thing!!! Just forget him!
2006-12-19 09:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Just Me... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
myspace is so stupid just a whole bunch of whores on there trying to show off
i hate it
2006-12-19 09:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋