Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

i love my husband very much .ours is love marriage.nobody supported our marriage and my parents had filed a case against him which is till now going on. at presend i am studying in graduation and living in hostel with my best friend. my husband also lives in same area where i live on rent and working in a private institute as a teacher. i often do what he says. i always leave my imp clases for him. daily i make food for him by going there by bunking my clases. daily i arrange his room, wash his clothes,etc do all his work,satisfy him sexually.but still he thinks that i give more importance to my friends,studies,parents,others and not him.he has made many restrictions for me to follow which is impossible to follow wholly like dont talk to boys or frd, dont make friends,dont attend any ones call except his and my parents,dosnot like me and my bestfriend's friendship.ask me live a deserted life only with him.we dont have any baby.i am 20yrs and he is of 26.april 2005 is our marriage day

2006-12-19 02:13:53 · 18 answers · asked by libra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She taps me on the upper arm and upper leg, leans on me, and hugs me now. She is touchy-feely and says that she touches lots of guys, but I only see her touching me. She joked about me being her bf and called my other girl friends "competition" once. She also spends all of her time with me when we see each other. We brought up being together but decided to remain friends. Are these actions normal for a girl to have when she is friends with a guy? I wonder because we are becoming closer and closer!

2006-12-19 02:13:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 02:12:56 · 4 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 02:12:56 · 11 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Family

I am 15 and has had sex with an 18 year old. My mom doesnt knw but she knows we do other things and wants to press chargers, but she doesnt understand that were in love and were not doing it to use eachother. if we were he wouldnt of moved to rhode island from tennesse to be with me and give up a free 4 year college.
what should i tell her?

2006-12-19 02:12:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and to love someone whom you have never met?

2006-12-19 02:11:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does a guy chase you for ages, then when you meet up, he doesnt chase you so you end up chasing him, but then, when you stop chasing him cause your fed up of him ignoring you, he starts chasing you again!!

we have only kissed eachother!!

ive heard that he likes the chase and that hes never had a girlfriend before. i dont know if this is true though.

he is 29 and single.

when we are together, he always wants to be around me and never leaves my side!!!!!its all about me!!!lol xxxx
he constantly complimenting me. we have so much in common.

2006-12-19 02:11:10 · 17 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Should i trade her in now? or wait for dementia first?

2006-12-19 02:11:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 29 year-old woman (pregnant at the moment), married to a wonderful husband and am currently living abroad. I have a crazy mother who's here right now to help me at this time and to forget her troubles with my father (who had a one-night stand w/ a hooker 3 years ago). The problem is, she continues to talk about the problem until now, eventhough my father didn't leave us and continues to support our family and tries to change his "ways" (read: being a bit frisky). She and my dad already went to counseling and she's taking medicine for the pain and depression. Here's the trick: she sometimes refuses to take the medication because she wants to "remember" the hurt so she feels "alive". She recently got jealous of the household help, because my father was getting "touchy feely" with her, but my crazy mom refuses to fire the maid! And to top it all off, she blames us (her children) of not being able to "change our father's ways". Now, I refuse to speak to her. Is this okay?

2006-12-19 02:10:53 · 14 answers · asked by Burnt Sienna 1 in Family

My boyfriend remembered my birthday! Wow I was impresseed. He said we will go out tonight - i said I have a meeting at 6:30 to 7:30 and he was like I'll take you out and buy you something.
Should I take him up on his offer or just ask him to spend one quite evening with me?

2006-12-19 02:10:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 02:09:07 · 23 answers · asked by meangyrl21 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-19 02:08:32 · 18 answers · asked by theo_1967 1 in Singles & Dating

Pretaining to relationships, after any extent of time, is cheating wrong? What should we do when it happens. Who reacts worse to it, men or women. A recent studied sais that cheating was believed to be right by 65% of the population with spouses from low-income families being 76% more likely. Does anyone still believe in the concept of forever, love for that matter? I also read a thingie on yahoo, that said lieing and fighting were ok acceptable things?

Personally I think cheating is unforgivable and that people don't deserve second chances. I still believe in love, and marriage is an eternally binding thing, that you don't let someone else down with no matter how bad it gets.

Opinions?

2006-12-19 02:08:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-19 02:07:32 · 28 answers · asked by jaws 1 in Singles & Dating

so i just got engaged this past weekend and we are excited to get the colors picked out for the wedding..We are planning to get married on september 19th..i am going to have a tan dress rather then white..i was thinking that some brown would look good i just cant decide of colors for flowers and soo on!! please help if you have any suggestions!

2006-12-19 02:07:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We used to sms each other very often past few month. She always reply my message and alway seem interested and usually reply back or even ask questions or change topic. Few times she will sms me first to disturb me, tell me her problem or what happen currently. It is 2 way kinda of chat sms.

But past 1 month, if i didnt sms her. she wont sms me. She dont reply very instantly now and also dont reply to all my sms. And she also reply in a short sentence like: ok. thanks. lol. or smiley. Making it 1 way. I try to chalk up more conversation with her but send up she stop replying.

She is not my girlfriend but i m interested in her. She seem to turn cold and i dont wish to make myself feel i m stalking up on her. and sometimes i feel like a fool when she dont reply.

What has gone wrong? Pls advise. Thanks

2006-12-19 02:07:19 · 10 answers · asked by Fred 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 02:06:32 · 6 answers · asked by ciao 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-19 02:05:38 · 13 answers · asked by corkscrewpirate 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, follow along . . . A married man, meets his neighbor (female) for drinks on Friday at happy hour, initiated by the female neighbor. His wife calls during the happy hour, and he tells his wife who he is with. (the neighbor is friends with the husband and wife)
Do you think that the married man was interested in the neighbor at all, even in just a flirty way, or was it purely a chance to get out and have a drink ?

2006-12-19 02:05:36 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So i think im ready to . Have sex but im really scared . Im nervous . What if i do something wrong?

2006-12-19 02:05:11 · 9 answers · asked by oh snapp 2 in Singles & Dating

I know after a certain time a relationship can get boring and and unexciting.What things do you do to keep your love ones interest?

What keeps your relationship strong?

What things do you do to keep the spark?

Do you change your appearence?

Any advice will be helpful.

2006-12-19 02:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by imacutie2 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I had FWB relationship with older woman at work in past year, she is divorced has 3 kids, has bipolar disorder has slept around with other men and when I tried talking to her she reported me for harrassment. But I still can't seem to hate her or even dislike her a little bit, I think I'm crazy and she is no Cameron Diaz.

2006-12-19 02:04:19 · 7 answers · asked by erer d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 02:03:54 · 4 answers · asked by Meagan S 1 in Singles & Dating

My boss sent all his employees a personalized photo Christmas card. The card shows my boss, his wife, and their adorable 8 month old baby girl.
I want to say thanks for the ______ Christmas card. Should I say nice, great, what word should I use with the Christmas card to describe how happy my husband and I were to receive that yesterday?
Any suggestions are helpful!

2006-12-19 02:03:45 · 33 answers · asked by toralm1 1 in Friends

I'm an only son and at times feel depress around holidays seen big families get together. I have a wonderful wife and kids, but it seems like every holiday is just us with my parents or hers, no one else. I wish I had a big family, whom do you spend your holidays with?

2006-12-19 02:02:27 · 14 answers · asked by amig 1 in Family

2006-12-19 02:01:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 02:00:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 01:59:28 · 51 answers · asked by Zacklee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-19 01:59:12 · 13 answers · asked by gamemaster11_2001 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok a lil history here. Me and this guy have known each other for about 9 yrs now. Always have been the best of friends. For the past 3 yrs we've been sleeping together off and on. It never was a relationship w/ us b/c we both knew we only wonted the sexual part of the relationship not all the other crap. Well now we've changed that role and were dating. Have been a lil while now. Things are great between us. We get along so well. Never have a dull moment when the 2 of us is together. I'm enlisting into the military here very soon. So I'll be leaving. He's cool with it and very proud of me actually. My thing is I'm in love with him. Have been for some time now. But never told him b/c never thought it was the right time r place to do so. Now I do wont to tell him. But I don't wont him to think I'm pushing him and r rushing him into something. But before I go off to boot camp I do wont to express how I'm feeling to him. I just dunno. So question is should I say those 3 big words to him?

2006-12-19 01:58:17 · 26 answers · asked by Kimberly 2 in Singles & Dating