We used to sms each other very often past few month. She always reply my message and alway seem interested and usually reply back or even ask questions or change topic. Few times she will sms me first to disturb me, tell me her problem or what happen currently. It is 2 way kinda of chat sms.
But past 1 month, if i didnt sms her. she wont sms me. She dont reply very instantly now and also dont reply to all my sms. And she also reply in a short sentence like: ok. thanks. lol. or smiley. Making it 1 way. I try to chalk up more conversation with her but send up she stop replying.
She is not my girlfriend but i m interested in her. She seem to turn cold and i dont wish to make myself feel i m stalking up on her. and sometimes i feel like a fool when she dont reply.
What has gone wrong? Pls advise. Thanks
2006-12-19 02:07:19 · 10 answers · asked by Fred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CALL HER! Texting is already the coldest form of communication! She could be totally excited about you but just busy or she may just have no interest. Human contact will be the best way to find out! Get some balls and call the girl up!
2006-12-19 02:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Trevor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has lost interest in you. Happened the other way around iwth a guy few years back, and he couldnt get the message either. Eventually he showed up and asked, why I wasnt returning his calls. I 'politely' told him that time is precious to me, and that I would really appreciate if it was not wasted with someone I didnt want.
2006-12-19 10:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! this has happened to me recently with this guy too. From my point of view, I think that girl likes you, but not as much (same goes to my case.)
If you wanna follow my footstep, go ahead. Today I will confront him about it in a subtle way about how I feel, what's up and why. I don't have my expectation up high so I'm prepared for the worst as well. But hey, at least I won't have to question myself and keep reading other's mind anymore. It beats the crap out of me. Hate it.
2006-12-19 10:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shes probably in a real live face to face relationship. Go figure !
Ever thought about meeting her live?
2006-12-19 10:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by CryBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
words are only 35% of your communication!~ I would be offended if you didn't try other means of communications with me! There for i would not text ya after a month way to long! make it real! CALL HER!
2006-12-19 10:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i used to do the same to my bf but i mean if you have showed lack of intrest then she has probablly sinced it and decided to back off and if you havent showed lack of intrest then she probably just is confused about the whole situation ask her about it
2006-12-19 10:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by octashiathamoneymaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what went wrong, but tell her how you feel and then if she still acts cold move on
2006-12-19 10:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummmm....she found a REAL relationship!
2006-12-19 10:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
a guy is doing that to me now.
help me tooo! >.<
2006-12-19 10:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by lilbr0wnsuga 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She cahnged her mind...
2006-12-19 10:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by jrhod263 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋