I know after a certain time a relationship can get boring and and unexciting.What things do you do to keep your love ones interest?
What keeps your relationship strong?
What things do you do to keep the spark?
Do you change your appearence?
Any advice will be helpful.
2006-12-19 02:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by imacutie2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, you are going through a testing time. every strong relationship needs to have some down-time. and if both of you can endure the bordom and accept the fun and boring time then you're headed to the right direction. find a common activities if you want to keep your relationship interesting. this way, you'll find out his ugly side as well. remember that when you see his true-self, don't be discourage; it's a way of discovering who he is. keep things interesting, do things from the seat of your pants. for an example, this weekend, take a drive to country side and have an outing, or go surfing. i'm sure you can be creative.
2006-12-19 02:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kind of sad to think about the relationship as getting boring... Its not so much boring as it is predictable... You start to already know things about your lover, so the excitement of discovery wears off.
What keeps the relationship strong is, the feelings you have for each other. You stay together because there is something in that person that you can't find in anyone else.
To keep the spark going, just change things up once in a while. Try new and different things together. New experiences and memories will be more valuable than the first two months when all you had to go on was what "could be". Make plans together to do things that you each think the other will enjoy.
Changing your appearance is a way to bring back a tiny bit of the early relationship excitement. Don't get too disappointed if it doesn't wok the way you wanted though... Remember, they fell for you the way you were, not the way you could be.
2006-12-19 02:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by John N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with mine for three years and it hasn't gotten boring, but if i'm afraid of it becoming boring, then i just do something that reminds him of the girl he fell in love with. Like with us, our first date was a nice long drive, So i just hop in the car and take him to one of our old spots and tell him how much i love him. Don't change anything about your apprearence unless it's something you really really want to do for yourself, not someone else. If it's too much work to try to keep the relationship going, then end it. But in the mean time, just do something special for him... you'll get that spark back for sure!
2006-12-19 02:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Stephie*~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To keep a relationship going, you need teamwork!!! It takes hard work to keep a relationship going and going! When 2 people love each other, they will do things that are considerate!! I love it when my husband still opens the door for me or gives me his jacket when I'm cold!!! And, I will lay a big, juicy kiss on him when he comes home from work! I also tell him how gorgeous he still is to me although he has gained a little weight!!! I also put love letters in his car before he leaves to go to work!!! It's the little things that really count!!! We also hold hands in the car while driving somewhere..(he still has 1 hand on the steering wheel). Well, I hoped this helped a little!!
2006-12-19 02:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boy been together for 4 years. We talk a lot about our feelings. To keep the spark, I get some new lingerie every now and then. We just get up and go different places to keep it exciting. I keep up my appearance and change it up every once in a while. I suprise him sometimes and sometimes he suprises me.
2006-12-19 03:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by loveangel22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just always bring your best self to the relationship. Try to mix things up a bit, try new things, go to new places, think of new conversations.
2006-12-19 02:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think the relationship itself gets boring-- you just might get bored. do something different for yourself i guess
2006-12-19 02:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always let my husband know how much i adore his ability to make me laugh. I let him know how important to me, he his.
we also have excellent communication skills, are very open and honest.
2006-12-19 02:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me i would just pour some honey on you
2006-12-19 03:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋