i love my friends boy friend i can kell my self for him he is so cute and i have to get him dont take this wrong but youhave to undrestand why i have to get him i cry every day for him every day people so are you going to help me? thank you any whay note i think he likes me but only god know that
2006-12-19 01:51:48 · 23 answers · asked by walaa a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get over it
2006-12-19 01:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Dave 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are so many wonderful people out there. Don't get so hung up over a guy who is taken. You shouldn't stoop to being a boyfriend stealer. You will lose your friend and possibly the friendship and respect of others.
You should have more respect for yourself and your ability to find a great guy. If you seriously cry over him every day and want to kill yourself because he is so cute, you should really talk to a parent or student counselor.
2006-12-19 11:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by AmyU 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel you are 'identifying' your existance only if you can have someone to 'possess'.
Yes!... he may be 'so cute you have to get him'.....'get him and do what?' Boyfriends 'come and go' Girlfriends are 'always there' to wipe our tears and help us to 'party on' instead of 'pity party'.
My hesitation in you pursuing a person, who is already 'committed by heart' to your friend is showing the 'Universe' that this is what you wish for 'more of' in your own life.
How would it be that one day when you eventually marry and 'cause & effect' (karma) eventually finds you and your man, your friendly next door neighbours wife, may just bake that 'nice apple pie' and you will be the one with the cream on your face.
Don't do this to yourself. Stand back, have integrity, morals and exercise your ethics. WAIT.... no girl is going to stay with one guy 'forever' OK? You will 'date' or 'couple' with a few before marriage beckons your final fate .... and it would be nice for you to share this with your girlfriends.
You would not wish for yourself to become known as someone that one could not trust and have all that 'mistrustful' energy focussed 'at you' and that is what you will only atttract more of yourself....you get what you give out in life....you will only attract mistrustful people into your own life.
We are eachothers mirror....if you want 'true love peace and happiness' you will need to come from your heart centre, your own personal truth, and hopefully it is the one truth that our Divine Source will help you to take notice of.
Blessings be yours in peace & happiness,
Harriett Potty ;)
2006-12-19 10:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by harriettpotty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to seriously check yourself!!! How would you feel to have a friend around you all the time and yet, in the back of her mind she's planning to take your man!
You are very wrong if you want to go on and pursue him, because by the looks of it in about 10 years you're going to look back on this and realize that it wasn't worth it!
2006-12-19 11:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by redbone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
$hit that your problem grow up and stop being a sneaky tW@T and leave your friends bf alone who cares if u cry deal with grown up $Hit first then talk and thank you ahead for reporting don't care tired or little girls here complaining bout there love life god go suck a D!CK
next time use spelling check ***** KELL what is that
2006-12-19 09:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and get over it. Right now this seems like the most important thing in the world. And maybe in your world it is. But in 2 years you'll laugh at how silly this all is. Your childhood heartbreak is like everyone else's in the world. It will pass. Soon.
2006-12-19 09:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by TimmyD 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ok so you cry for this guy. And you think he likes you. I am a dude and I can tell you he doesn't like you. Of coarse your not going to listen to us, unless we one of says yes go for him. If that's the kind of girl you want to be then go right ahead. Just be warned that of you steal your friends guy then you will be marked as a ho. And if that's what you want then go for it. But I would rather find another person then have that against me. trust me as a guy, I would rather be alone then date a ho.
2006-12-19 10:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by Tyler C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are truely a friend then you will leave your friend's boyfriend alone! You need to find your own dates!!! You need to take yourself out of the situation for awhile until you get over him! Time and new boys will heal the situation!!
2006-12-19 09:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
And you still have the nerve to call your self her friend? Try S L U T instead.....oh yeah and by the way stay in school that way you'll learn to spell better.
2006-12-19 10:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really after this guy, I have a word of advice. DON'T write him a letter.
After reading your question, I would guess you possess the writing skills of about a 3rd grader. If you are that young, you are too young for a boyfriend. If you are older, your time will be better spent in a classroom.
2006-12-19 10:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you prepared to jeopardize your friendship? Because if I was your friend and I found out you were trying to get with my man, I'd make you suffer. Friends boyfriends = Off limits.
2006-12-19 09:55:57 · answer #11 · answered by Fantasy686 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋