Well this guy has told me he really likes me and wants me to go out with him. But back then I wasn't sure so I kept putting him off. Now I realize I have feelings for him, but haven't told him yet. For some reasons he told me last weekend that he is going out with another girl. So I said oh! you have a girlfriend now. He responded that he went on a date with a girl doesn't make her his girlfriend.
So in the past few days, I have been calling him, but he never answers. I will see him in a few hours, should I say something? What's up with that?
2006-12-19 01:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course you should say something. You will regret it later if you don't speak up now. Tell him how you feel, the key to life is communication. Talk, open up tell him all. Then he will either say something like "I've been dying for you to say something like that!" OR "I'm sorry, I don't feel the same anymore." Either way, you put it out there and there won't be any regrets down the road. Good luck and God bless!
2006-12-19 01:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. The simple fact that he stated "Just because I go out on a date with a girl doesn't make her my girlfriend" basically implies that he is most likely open to a relationship with you. If he wanted nothing to do with you on a relationship level, he would have simply said "Yes, I have a girlfriend" whether it was true or not.
2006-12-19 01:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by phusion 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should say something before it starts getting serious with him and this other person. At least then you will know where you stand without all the regrets because you didn't let him know.I mean at this point It can't get any worse then it already is. Good luck.
2006-12-19 01:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Audrey : 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy has over you..
Let him be alone for awhile..
Don't say something, just act cool.. Don't ever ask him on that or you will be seen like undesirable..
If he wants to tell you something then he will.. if not then forget about him and move on..
2006-12-19 02:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you needed some time to think about things, and clear your mind, and now you would like it if you to could start hanging out if he is free, if he ask about dating then say yeah not before might come off needy not good.
good luck
just be you and relax
2006-12-19 02:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by ncgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's question like this that make me thank God I'm not a teenager any more.
STOP OVER-THINKING THINGS!
If you gonna see him in two hours, then just ask him if he interested in dating you exclusively when you see him.
Stop reading into un-returned phone calls....it's what guys do.
2006-12-19 01:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the reason why guys are so leary of "relationships". Girls are so freakin' complicated. The guy wanted to go out with you, you passed, he found someone else to hook up with and now you want to "confront" him? Who the F are you?
2006-12-19 01:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be honest and tell him your true feelings ... otherwise you might be in my situation where I wish I did something many years ago and now it might be too late!
2006-12-19 01:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by help1972 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that i would just tell him look i like you and i have feelings for you and i want you to tell me if you feel the same and if he dosent the just move on
2006-12-19 01:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by octashiathamoneymaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have to say anythin..
ur body will do so..
whut i mean is...by de way u lookin at him.. de way ur talkin will make de guy realize whuts u up too....
if he still blind n stuff..
just hint him by sayin.."i think i miss u"
;)
good luck in ya date
2006-12-19 01:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by young wifey~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋