I met this girl about a year ago. She is probebly the most amazing woman i have ever met. There is only one problem. Her parents don't like me and they don't even want to give me the chance to meet them. They won't let me see her or spend anytime with her. I am still able to talk to her on the phone though. It makes our relationship really hard to maintain. I'm always skeptical because i feel like shes hiding something from me. It makes me do things that i normally would'nt do. I honestly really care a lot about her, I just want her to take that step and come to me. Why does she let her parents control her like that? Should I just ignore her? Im afraid if i do that, she'll marry the guy her parents want her to marry. Please help, I really cant sleep or do anything right, and i never in my help felt this way about anyone.
2006-12-19 01:57:08 · 6 answers · asked by trigger_silence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never give up. If you care for her and you want to be with her then love will find a way. You do have to look at the situation she is in. If she is of age then her descions should be made on her own not her parents. If she cares for you as much as you care for her then no matter what the rules may be shell cross them. Have you talked to her? Have you opened up and asked her if she wanted to be with you? If you care for her that bad to where you putting your life on hold and your willing to fight, then maybe you should be the one to ask her to marry. If shes old enough then she can do what she wants if she isnt and she still follows orders from mommy and daddy then theres something seriously wrong. Best of luck but word of advice keep trying and dont give up, if its meant to be then youll be together. GOOD LUCK
2006-12-19 02:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is the root of this problem a financial one? In her parent's eyes, can this other person better support their daughter in the future? If this is the case you have quite a bit to contend with because many parents would rather see their kid with a mansion and a yacht instead of a trailer and a pickup truck. If those things matter to your "amazing woman" enough to keep her from following her heart you would be better off without her. She either loves you enough to want to be with you come what may, regardless of her parent's, or not. The only way to resolve the problem is to talk with her from your heart and allow her to decide and soon. Don't continue to be strung along.
2006-12-19 10:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Little Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give Up! There are too amny great girls out there, to get hung up on an impossible situation. If she even really cared about you, she wouldn't listen to her parents, but she is. Move on. Take a vacation and start over.
2006-12-19 10:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by ankle biter tamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you are talking to her on the phone, the other guy that her parents like is probably over for dinner. She is keeping you in the picture but ultimately you will lose. Roll!
2006-12-19 10:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we ask questions we alreadyknow the answer to? If you're in a relationship where you have to do 60% of the work, that's an alarm right there. If you doing 95% like you're doing, then do you need to be hit in the head to get it?
2006-12-19 10:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her parents are controller her like that, than what makes you think they won't control your relationship? Or marriage if it comes to that? If she is letting her parents interfere with your relationship than maybe her feelings aren't as strong as yours seem to be.
2006-12-19 10:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋