i really need this advice, please help me!!
2006-12-19 00:40:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u stay with the 1 u love cuz u r lucky 2 have sum1 who u can love and can love u back.plus the other person may not have strong feelings for u
2006-12-19 00:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a shame that we all think we have to pick just one person to "love." If only everyone realised that love is abundant, people are not posessions and it only displays insecurity when you are jealous.
Honey, The best solution would be to have them both, wouldn't it? But unless all three of you are happy with that situation, It wont work. Personally, I'm no longer seeking exclusive relationships. I cannot focus all my love in just one direction, It doesnt make sense + I'll be telling all my prospective partners this too. Remember, life is about change - Whatever happens now, you will forget about before long. It's not a big deal, You are the only person you are guarenteed to be with for the rest of your life. Xx
2006-12-19 08:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Honeymist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look at the difference of "loving someone to bits" and just "liking" someone. Maybe the really liking part is becasue it is a new face, a bit of variety etc, and you have received attention from this person. But, if you love someone already, is it just loving them, or are you in love with them?. We can love many people, but not be in love with many. You need to ask yourself this. Apart from that, if you were happy with the one you love to bits, why are you admiring someone else?. Maybe the question speaks for itself. Hope you get sorted.
2006-12-19 09:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Solista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why choose at all? What's so special about monogamy that even unmarried girls think they need one? Carry on going out with the one you love, and let the someone else have an occasional night with you. Be honest to both about your feelings.
Jennie
2006-12-19 08:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in that position then do you really "love the other person to bits" or is it just fear of being alone?
Be honest with your current partner and let them go. You obvioously aren't ready for anything that serious yet.
2006-12-19 08:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to isolate yourself from both and then figure out what you want. If you truly love your partner, you should really remove the person you like from your temptation. Failing that,, be fair and courteous to both and segregate yourself until you can come to a fully justifiable and sane conclusion.
2006-12-19 08:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love does not compare with like. if u really love someone then u wouldn't do anything to jepordise that and there would be no choice between LOVE and LIKE.
go out with ur partner and have some fun!! forget about the person u like
good luck :)
2006-12-19 08:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by missilibi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love the one you are going out with, you should never have to ask that question. let your heart decide who is best for you...the one you love to bits or the one that u "like." Remember this...the word love is stronger than the word like. Just think about it.
2006-12-19 08:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by ashv611 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spell Check!
2006-12-19 08:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you love someone you don't want to go out with someone else. Obviously you don't actually love the first person.
2006-12-19 08:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋