My son father and I are not together, not married, not living together. I am the one that takes care of my son without any help for him but he wants to transfer his school because he want to take my son away from me. My son is all that I have and I am scared that my son father is going to try to take him out of school without my permission. Please tell me what I should do?
2006-12-19 00:30:19 · 23 answers · asked by bigbeautiful1977 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Take him to court. Bust his a*ss and make sure you make his life miserable by making him pay an unfair amount of child support. That should shut him up for a while.
2006-12-19 00:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He can't just take him out of school without your consent.I would say speak to your child's principal.Let them know that there is a potential situation with you child's father and under no circumstances is your son to be released from school to anyone except the people you specify.Let them know if they do you will bring about legal action.Then you go and start seeking legal help to get permanent custody.Then you should also seek child support cuz that will show that you have been handling everything on your own and they will make him back pay some money.He will probably get visitation rights but let them know you want it supervised because he keeps threatening to take your child altogether.Good luck been there done that worked out fine. But I was a nervous wreck like you in the beginning.
2006-12-19 09:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Audrey : 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't just take your son...You need an attorney and if he has not been supporting your son, he will have to explain why and that won't look good for his chances of gaining custody anyway. You need to find someone to help you asap...You also need to contact the school and make sure that no one takes your son unless you are contacted. I don't know if maybe you need a court order for this or not, but if you do, get it fast. Good Luck
2006-12-19 08:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by ransdoll90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you must do is contact the school. Take him off the emergency card for authority to pick him up if he is on it. Tell you son under no circumstances he is to go with his father. Tell the school your fears and that your son's father has no custodial rights to your son at all. Tell them also, that you and someone else that you have picked are the only ones that can pick him up from school. They will require identification, even from you, to release your son when picked up.
2006-12-19 09:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't transfer your son into another school without your permission. If you have sole custody and he only has access then this would be impossible for him to do and if you have joint custody then you need to agree to it first.
Go and see if you can have a free half hour consultation with a lawyer to know what your rights are and where you stand legally. I think you might be suprised.
2006-12-19 09:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a lawyer. if you've been taking care of your son and being a good mother then he has no say as to what you do in your child's upbringning. You need to show the court that this guy has not been helping in your son's life.
2006-12-19 08:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but unless you have sole custody of your son your ex can do this you need to talk to a lawyer and get some legal counseling.
2006-12-19 08:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by Hunny Bee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have legal sole custody then your ex cannot make any changes concerning your son without your persmission. The first thing that you should do is contact a lawyer and make sure that you have legal custody.!!!!! Good luck!
2006-12-19 08:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ginger P 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are laws and the school system to work with you. Inform the school to be ever so watchful of the potential. Get a Lawyer.
2006-12-19 08:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by iroc 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be very careful with this situation. your ex bf does not have any right to take your son away. your son hardly know this man and so do you since you two have seperated. i think you might have to think bringing this to court and i guess you will win the custody since you're the one who sees your son growing up and raise him. gd luck.
2006-12-19 08:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by FairGround 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Were you married before. If not there is not much that he can do. You should get some legal advice. Write everything down that you remember. Good luck & God bless.
2006-12-19 08:33:57 · answer #11 · answered by Spokie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋