I am still in love with the mother of my 11 week old daughter, we've been split up for 7 months and I still miss and love her sooooo much it kills me. We were together for awhile. We split during the hormone months and now we are getting along. I think sometimes i hear it in her voice and see it in her eyes she still has something there for "us"
2006-12-19 10:40:17 · 15 answers · asked by mike_is_a_single_dad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok I didn't hurt her, lol she broke up with me, yes I can handle a relationship, yes I can get up with a crying baby but Aryanna (the baby)sleeps all night, together we have 4 children, so we both been through the baby thing. How come you girls think the guy always hurts and never gets hurt... but anyways if you want more details ask in your answer. or message me on messenger : The_enigma_known_as_tha_mike
2006-12-19 10:53:06 · update #1
oh yeah and I was there in the hospital for Aryannas birth, I was there everyday in that hospital all day long till she came home.
2006-12-19 10:54:19 · update #2
ive heard shes told friends she doesnt want a boyfriend, which would cancel all this out.
2006-12-19 11:07:52 · update #3
or would it?
2006-12-19 11:08:29 · update #4
we combined have four children, 1 with each other 2 from a previous for her and 1 from a previous from me. and 1 together (newborn)
2006-12-19 11:13:50 · update #5
Don't come on too strong.
At this point, I would suggest SHOWING her love, instead of making some grand promise or profession of love.
In the long run, it will go much further.
2006-12-19 10:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How sad that you weren't there for the birth of your child. As for the hormone problem, her body has been through alot and her levels probably are off. But if you can't handle a woman with problems with hormones, How are you going to feel about a baby that is crying in the middle of the night? The baby needs a father and you are lucky she still loves you, but you better decide if you are mature enough to handle a family that has flaws.
2006-12-19 10:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys obviously care about each other. But you also obviously have communication difficulties and issues that neither of you know how to discuss with the other without rage.... Sure, you marriage has a great chance.... Get a few sessions of marriage counseling, and how to communicate and show each other you care. Do that first before you move in together... you're rushing, and then neither of you knows what to do but run when the sledding get a bit bumpy. Good luck, hon.... you and she just need a little help, is all....
2006-12-19 10:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be right here, but you two just need to take it nice and slow as if youve just met and started dating. I have a strong feeling here that you two can actually make this work but both of you are too afraid to iniate it. So quit wasting anymore time and go after her before something else comes between you two. Good luck and Merry Christmas
2006-12-19 10:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the world would be much brighter if there was a little more love passed around. I always believed that if you have feelings for someone you should let them know as soon as possible. You may never get another chance to let her know. jump in the deep end and do it for your self and your child. Do It!
2006-12-19 10:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by leaves_of_autumn171311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a chance for a reconciliation. Go for it. Don't waste another minute losing out on your daughter's development and the chance for a rekindled love with your ex. Just tell her what you have told us.
2006-12-19 10:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by helly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u realy truly luv her, ya by all means talk 2 her let her no how u feel and then take it from there. But if she still luvs u then my advice would b take it slow, and realy mean what u say. Good luck
2006-12-19 10:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww you're a sweet guy.. if you have already 4 kids together why can't you just ask her to try to work things out? Buy her presents.. flowers... flirt.
2006-12-19 11:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spill your guts man! She may be waiting for you to do just that! Tell her you want to try and make a life with her and your daughter!
2006-12-19 10:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her but be prepared for what will happen if she does not feel the same way. Good luck!
2006-12-19 10:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by mydds07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋