Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

I had sex with my foreign housemate from Poland. But I told her I just want to be friends and that I'm not ready for a relationship. Now she's crying and crying and she hates me and I'm a male pig. Which I suppose is true. I suppose I deserve this, don't I? What the heck do I do?!

2006-12-19 11:18:01 · 15 answers · asked by Sexual Jesus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-19 11:16:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-19 11:16:33 · 12 answers · asked by lizeth_in_love 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so the question is.. Should it be mandatory to vote in the United States as it is in Australia, with serious penalties imposed for those who do not vote, such as fines or loss of driver's license? Why or why not?

the 2nd question isThe percentage of men on America's college campuses is steadily declining. Research suggests that college women may soon outnumber college men by a ratio of 3:2. What do you believe to be the causes of this trend? Is this a problem for our colleges and universities? For our nation?

i need help with the thesis.. and some ideas?? help would be greatly appreciated!

2006-12-19 11:16:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have been dating her for about 5 months. She is 21 yrs old. I see her probably once or twice a week. We both have busy work schedules.

2006-12-19 11:16:07 · 14 answers · asked by chuck26 2 in Singles & Dating

im moveing to a new school and ive never done that before...its my sophomore year and i need some tips on how to get threw this...how do i make the right friends and not get involved with the wrong crowd...r they going to be mean? see at my school we have a welcomeing committy for new students but this school doesnt so...am i just getting thrown into hell without a life jacket? how do i deal?

2006-12-19 11:15:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i really like this guy and we are talking but he has been hurt so many times and he always tells me he doesn't trust girls but i have never not been trusted...and this kinda hurts me...i want him to trust me help!!

2006-12-19 11:14:59 · 16 answers · asked by erica g 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been told that I have a airy and sweet voice by many people

2006-12-19 11:14:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 11:13:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl that probably liked me just talked to another guy, smiling at him just like she did to me (she didnt know I was around). I did talk to her but never asked her number. Is she still intersested or is that her guy. I dont stalk her if thats what you're wondering. I dont know if I should just ignore her and never speak/look to her again or take a chance and get my self esteem lowered than it already is.

2006-12-19 11:13:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've gotten my heart broken by someone lately that I thought we were perfect for eachother but no ones perfect I know now. It really sucks!!

2006-12-19 11:12:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

there is this girl in my class and supposevely she has heard from people that i like her. I only like her as a friend but i got htis feeling that she likes me because she acts differentle with me than others. Today she wanted me to sent her the e-mails of some students and she replied it by sayin "thank you. now i have said this before but i have heard from people that you like me. Do you?"
She wants me to e-mail her the answer TODAY and i do not know what to say. i am thinking on saying that "i do not answer those questions, i keep them to myself and to nobody else"or something like that

so what should i do

2006-12-19 11:11:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is he ever going to get a job. I really love him but he cant afford anything and is always asking me for money. And it seems like he is tearing our relationship apart. Thanks for your help.

2006-12-19 11:11:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when i was 15 comeing up into highschool they hated me they made fun of me no girl would look at me even my own teacher ued to embarass me now in college everybody acts like they \know me and we are so chill but i still remember what they uesd to do to me can i trust them

2006-12-19 11:09:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

theres a boy and i used to like him. he purposly got a gf to make me jealous. he doesnt even hang out with her and i dont think he even likes her at all.i need ideas to make him jealous and get him back.

2006-12-19 11:07:58 · 46 answers · asked by Blabbity 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend in high school, but it bothers me that we do not hang out outside of school. One time we made plans, but that didn't happen. I am shy, but I really want us to hang out. How can I ask as to not be embarrassed and what activity should we do?

2006-12-19 11:07:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hello everyone. just wanted to wish you all a merry christmas and a prosperous 2007.
All the best of wishes to you and your family.
Season greetings once again.

2006-12-19 11:06:49 · 9 answers · asked by mysticshabs 3 in Family

2006-12-19 11:06:41 · 7 answers · asked by AISHWARY P 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it ok to go back out with your ex boyfriend when he asked you?
help jaimie

2006-12-19 11:06:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

both my boyfriend and I are 16. I have, but he has yet to have his first kiss. we have been dating for almost two months. he is really shy. should i kiss him on christmas or wait for him to kiss me? ((there is no telling how long that could be.))

oh and he really likes me, and i think he wants to, but he is just so shy....

2006-12-19 11:06:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous 3 in Singles & Dating

and every time you talk they just look and smile

2006-12-19 11:05:46 · 10 answers · asked by JAY 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my parents have been fighting for a LONG time,and my mom HATES my dad's family, mainly my grandma and it's a long story but, anyways I play concerts(I play guitar at a rock school---lots of fun) and I was wondering is it fair if my mom said I need to tell them they can't come to my shows anymore or she won't come to them? And is it fair if she gets mad when i say im going to see them, or spend the night there and stuff?

2006-12-19 11:05:35 · 13 answers · asked by Zack H. 1 in Family

Also does race play a role? Just want to know your thoughts.

I telecommute and so does my male counterpart. We work from home so if we need to contact each other, it is via e-mail or the phone.

Anyway, I called my co-worker today and his wife picked up. Here's how the conversation went:

Wife: Hello?
Me: Hi, is Keith there? This is Josephine. We work together.
Wife: I don't think so! "Click." She HUNG UP the phone.

I did not wait to call back. I hit redial and was going to give her a piece of my mind. Her husband also works from home. Does she not understand that he will get calls there regarding business?! I was not going to disrespect her, but I was going to tell her that what she did was inappropriate and that I did not appreciate it.

Please tell me, was I out of line in anyway?

2006-12-19 11:04:45 · 16 answers · asked by mx3baby 6 in Marriage & Divorce

like footjobs, ever notice guys looking at your feet

2006-12-19 11:03:04 · 13 answers · asked by cypress272004 1 in Singles & Dating

wanted a long distance relationship, but it happened. It's not like I was searching for someone in a different state, but we've known each other for about 7 months and our feelings haven't subsided for each other AT ALL! We have talks on the phone and both our parents know. ...And soon, we'll be able to make phone calls over the internet. You get it? I didn't mean for this to happen, but it did and we love each other. Now, this is the best time of my life. We're both patient. When I first started talking to her, she instantly started to like me, even though she had a boyfriend. We both HAD feelings for other people, but those have subsided. I know that there's no one here like her and what should I do? If you're gonna criticize, I'd rather you not answer.

2006-12-19 11:03:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he claims she is just a roomate with benefits...he seems like a nice guy...but honestly...what do you think?

2006-12-19 11:03:02 · 10 answers · asked by repodana 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 15 years old and I have never before had a boyfriend.
I spend all my time on schoolwork, chores, and working in my parents business. I am pretty tired of the routine and when I'm bored I don't do anything but read. I am a very shy person and as everyone in my family is always busy I have started feeling lonely since the summer. I spend time with friends but they have things to do of their own. So now I think If I shoud get a boyfriend HOW?

2006-12-19 11:02:52 · 5 answers · asked by Hermy* 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

And well he liked me for a while, and we just started to go out last wednesday. I didn't really like him that much at first. But now i kind of like him... I mean i kind of like him but i kind of dont. The more i think about him the more i like him. I really like being with him... I dont know what to do. I mean i want to go out with him in all, but i dont know, im just confused! HELP!!!!

2006-12-19 11:01:36 · 10 answers · asked by His Wifey08 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife is a compulsive spender and has driven us near bankruptcy. Because she refuses to acknowledge it or get help, I am probably going to have to declare bankruptcy in the next few months, and probably will also file for divorce. We have 2 kids and live in Georgia.

From a financial and legal aspect, does it matter which action I take first? I will be filing for custody of both kids. One is 15, the other is 12. My wife, due to the compulsive spending and other emotional issues, is incapable of taking care of them. She has not held a job since our first child was born, though she has been offered a number of positions.

I don't want to take either action, but she really leaves me no choice. Any suggestions or perspectives from people who have been through this are appreciated.

2006-12-19 11:01:29 · 18 answers · asked by jlb_n_ga 2 in Marriage & Divorce

(Driver) and me have finished our relationship a year ago, and now that (Driver) knows that I have a new and serious relationship with my new boyfriend he start calling me at my cell and uses my phone number by leaving me messages telling me that he wont quit or also that he will be waiting, to me this whole thing is annoying...and my boyfriend is tired of this situation too... What can I do to solve this problem?

2006-12-19 11:00:36 · 17 answers · asked by Diana 1 in Singles & Dating