I've gotten my heart broken by someone lately that I thought we were perfect for eachother but no ones perfect I know now. It really sucks!!
2006-12-19 11:12:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeppers, I have had my heart broken and have broken hearts as well.
If he/she can be forgiven by you and you fell that it's worth it then by all means do so.
You should forgive him/her at the very least for the sake of yourself as harboring resentment is not healthy for you and could lead to problems in any other future relationships that you may wish to pursue.
It's also okay to forgive him/her but to NOT take him/her back .
As I said, the forgiving part is MAINLY FOR YOUR OWN WELL BEING, and if you do believe in God then you should already know that it will go along way in that regard, but you DON'T have to take him/her back if you personally feel that it's not worth it, you can't trust him/her and the like.
It is absoultely TRUE that you can come to have a relationship with someone that's PERFECT just for you. It doesn't mean that the relationship itself will be without problems from time to time because it's made up of TWO IMPERFECT PEOPLE but alll in all it could be the PERFECT matchup for you.
Be strong, be a caring person, never give up on love and don't try to hard to actually go looking for it because true love has an odd way of actually finding... you.
L8R and I hope that helped.
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2006-12-19 11:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have got my heart broken recently by my husband over something he did before we were married. This is the last person I ever expected to hurt me in any way thats why I married him. My advice to you is dont let this get you down or against falling in love again. Believe me your Mr. Right is out there and you will find him and be happy. You are right no one is perfect but some men really come close. So just be strong I know you feel like you will never get passed this but you will and when you look back at this years from now. You will see that this made you a stronger person for having to endure this.
2006-12-19 19:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First too many of us have suffered a broken heart. I think men do to...
It sucks when you believed that you knew the person that you were with well enough to trust him and consider him as a soul mate. After my breakup, I kept thinking to myself "God I couldn't have been that wrong." I just couldn't be that wrong. Then I realized I wasn't wrong. He was everything I could have wanted but it was me that was wrong. It was just he had read me differently and didn't consider me his soulmate.
2006-12-19 19:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me i had my heart broken in 8 grade because me and my ex was going to different schools. so we had to move on and it broke my heart in tears
2006-12-19 19:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by j.strack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have. Its the worst feeling ever. I hate the sickening feeling you get in the pit of your stomach. It does get better with time, but I still think about it every so often.
2006-12-20 02:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Squirrel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea definately... it sucks badly, it also sucks big time cuz just in time for christmas... so it wont be the happiest, but y'know what i deserve better and so do u.
2006-12-19 19:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by basketballqt1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and thought we were in love and met to be but now I know better. I guess that's how teens are.
2006-12-19 19:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had.
Twice
but i didn't date neither one.
then i guess u can say the third time was a charm
b/c i'm now dating a sweet adorable gorgeous guy who cares about me.
2006-12-19 19:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you, you will get your heart broken... there are the jerks & a** holes who dont care at all if they break your heart, and there are knights in shining aromor, one for every girl;; & it that first jerk broke your heart, carry on & keep loking.
2006-12-19 19:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me, and yes it is horrible, it will heal with time. Just give yourself some time. God has someone else even better in mind for you. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-19 19:14:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋