And well he liked me for a while, and we just started to go out last wednesday. I didn't really like him that much at first. But now i kind of like him... I mean i kind of like him but i kind of dont. The more i think about him the more i like him. I really like being with him... I dont know what to do. I mean i want to go out with him in all, but i dont know, im just confused! HELP!!!!
2006-12-19 11:01:36 · 10 answers · asked by His Wifey08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
huh?
2006-12-19 11:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a person is more attractive and we are more drawn to them only after we've taken the time to get to know them. Is it his looks that you don't really care for or his personality. If it's his personality, then that might be more difficult, because changing who he is is going to be hard, it probably won't make him happy either. I would say, if you just aren't really attracted to him physically yet, give it a chance. If you are mainly turned off by who he is inside, well, that may be harder to decide because he is who he is. Looks, and dress, etc., can change, to a point. Attitudes and personalities are another story. Good luck! Hang in there if you think he's worth it.
2006-12-19 11:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think we all got the point that you kinda like him but kinda don't. You said the more you think of him the more u like him so why not try hangin out with him a bit more? See how things go? No one says you have to be madly in love on the 1st date.. give it time.
2006-12-19 11:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very confused! Maybe you should just relax and go with the flow and don't overthink it. If it ends up that you guys are good together then go for it and if it's not working for you then at least you know you didn't work extra hard for something that didn't work out.
2006-12-19 11:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by dr_diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you like somthing about him then you don't. Alot of guys have this. I think he seems more like a friend to you, a very close friend and you need to tell him that. Just say you don't think the relationship i working because i don't feel 100% about you. If he still like you he would be your friend and move on.
2006-12-19 11:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by hottierecy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts about it, then you should stay with him, but if you really like him you should move forward. You need to figure out what you want to do before you start giving him vibes that you're not really feeling him.
2006-12-19 11:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by Crazed Chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kind of like him but you kind of don't! Sounds like you need to go to the beach and sort your feelings out.
2006-12-19 11:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok confused are ya. well dont push it.i mean if he wants to go back out with you he will ask if you are too pushy you will push him away.you just met him so chill it will happen
2006-12-19 11:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by laci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? baby girl, he's your bf and why can't you go out with him? if you guys haven't gone out yet, then technically, you can't call him your bf.
2006-12-19 11:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So...what's your question?
2006-12-19 11:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋