i really like this guy and we are talking but he has been hurt so many times and he always tells me he doesn't trust girls but i have never not been trusted...and this kinda hurts me...i want him to trust me help!!
2006-12-19 11:14:59 · 16 answers · asked by erica g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust first has to be deserved and earned..otherwise trust would be handed out to everyone...not fair..trust is special and important in a relationship..you cant pass it out like candy..or it wouldnt be special.
2006-12-20 09:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by tigerlilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a while to build trust. Just be patient and do not give him a reason to not trust you. In time he will trust you.
2006-12-19 19:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,maybe he just needs some time most guys do have trouble with trust just don't push him let him come to you.you shouldn't tell him you want his trust show that you need his trust just as he needs yours.I hope i've helped.
2006-12-19 19:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by cuteteddy168 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Earn it, stop asking, he will eventually if you dont do anything for him to think you are untrustworthy. It will probably take a while but it will get there. If not its not your fault, trust is a difficult thing to give up if people just let you down.
2006-12-19 19:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by jaffarkelshac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is earned
2006-12-19 19:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait it out and dont hurt him like the other females he's talked to have. Over time he will start to trust you just dont wait... and remember it aint your fault what them other females did to him
2006-12-19 19:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by tizbabymama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with him and ask him why he might not trust you. And ask him what you can do to gain his trust
2006-12-19 19:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by Reaper G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will have to help him by telling him that he is going to have to come out of the shell he has built around his heart.if he is ever going to trust he will have to risk his heart till he finds the true one.
2006-12-19 19:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust can only come in time so give it time respect and dont abuse the person
2006-12-19 19:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is putting on a front he trusts girls, if you are around him long enough you will get a chance.....
2006-12-19 19:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋