look i am not saying that all guys are self centered but the ones that i do know are so self centered that it is crazy! i mean all my BF's have been that way and i just i want a guy who cares for me is that too much to ask!??
2006-12-19 10:39:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, here's my experience with 2 self centered males...
The first guy was all about me asking about how his day was and everything. If I never asked him that then he would go on about how it was my job to ask him how his day was. Then when I did ask him how his day was he would never ask about me at all and keep the conversation all about him....
The second guy I dated on and off for a few months. Lost my Virginity to and everything. The week before my birthday we talked about where we were going to go out because it was my 21st bday. So, he said he would go out with me and be the DD if I didn't have one. Well, then friday I talked to him we talked about something or another can't remember. Then when I called him sunday night I got no answer and this continued. So, my birthday being on tuesday... I still didn't hear from him as of tuesday morning. So, me and my friends just went out and had a great time and then after I got all plastered I called him in the middle of the night left him a nice voicemail that said "F*ck Off, I never want to talk to your self centered a** agian since you can't even call the girl that is supposently your girlfriend and wish her a happy birthday"... Then I basically gave him 2 days to see if he was going to call me and apologize but he never did. So, all he did was use me for sex... then was completely self centered.
I understand were you are coming from with this question. I wonder if there are guys out there that can care about others equally.
2006-12-19 11:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can sometimes be self centred because its more of a security thing. if people see them as being 'confident' they would look at them diferently rather than seeing some shy guy with low self esteem. guys seomtimes have self respect more for themselves rather than their girlfriends (ie. you) because that is how they view the world, dont let a boy treat you less than you, dont let a boy disrespect who you are or your views.
dont take this in teh wrong way either, sometimes a guy can seem self centered but its purely just the way they ahve been judged by yourself (and me too!). they might just be happy with who they are and dont give a damn about what anyone has to say about them, therefore making them seem like they think theyre better. make sure your not too quick to judge and that you look at your own attitudes first.
2006-12-19 10:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that guys are really self centered, they just feel that they have to impress people more than girls do. When a guy is in the company of a girl that he is attracted to, he will make every effort he can to make her like him.
2006-12-19 10:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by shawnriley2 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why play it risk-free once you may bypass after what you rather need? He did the main appropriate component and larger previous due than under no circumstances... It sucks Melissa had to wreck like that yet she became dodging a bullet. If he had "tried" for some thing he did not prefer to attempt interior the 1st place then it does not have been honest for her. I help FOLLOWING YOUR heart, not WHAT you think of IS risk-free! no one wins once you act such as you like somebody the main yet you rather do not.
2016-12-30 16:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the gay ones are not self centered.
2006-12-19 10:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it is you that is self centered and not the men in your life.
2006-12-19 10:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well maybe you are not looking at the right places.have you ever thought that this might be your problem?stop blaming other people for your choices and try to get to know someone well before you start a relationship ;)hope i helped
2006-12-19 10:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by anna gr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, not all guys are self centered, i sell all my stuff to buy stuff for my girl friend for Christmas... just tell them they are and...i dunno, hard to make someone un self centered
2006-12-19 10:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, who is being self centerd in this question?
"i just i want a guy who cares for me"
Looks like you just want someone to pamper to you.
2006-12-19 10:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
they may just be trying to show off for you. He way feel like he isnt good enough for you. You may think I'm not serious but I am.
2006-12-19 10:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by wizly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋