Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

This is my first relationship ever. I'm 21 and have only been seeing her for 2 months. She has a very close friend that she's grown up with since early childhood. They spend a lot of time together, talking online or on the phone, shopping, going to hair salons and sometimes even working out together. They always talk so affectionately to each other and touch each other and stuff. I being the inexperienced, shy prude that I am assumed that's how all close girlfriends are. None of these of course really worried me until I saw them KISS eachother at a party!

Now I don't know what to do. I really like this girl and don't wanna mess things up. I don't wanna sound like an idiot asking her a question about something that maybe totally innocent and offend her. Cuz they were both drunk when they kissed. What the hell am i suppoded to do?

2006-12-17 14:03:42 · 19 answers · asked by Sepehr 1 in Singles & Dating

What exactly is this?

2006-12-17 14:03:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is 2 years old. Her Daddy, my husband, is in the military and overseas right now. He has been out of her life more than in it because of the military. Over the past year we were able to move to Colorado with him and be a real family. Since my oldest daughter has a different father, I was forced to move back in July. Since then my husband was deployed again. My youngest daughter has these hysterical crying fits. She won't let anyone touch her when she does this. I thought they were getting better but they're not. She tells me everyday that she needs her Daddy. My husband trys to call once a week and talk to her. We also made a teddy bear with a pocket picture of him on it. She takes that to bed with her every night. I am running out of ideas for her. It breaks my heart everytime she crys for him. I don't cry in front of her because I know that will make it worse, but it absolutely kill me inside to have her cry. What do I do?

2006-12-17 14:02:38 · 14 answers · asked by dmh2105 2 in Family

Started 10 years ago

2006-12-17 14:02:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm talking about in real life .. the net i know people curse and swear like its nobody business .. i'm not saying all americans do that but then imagine me as a tourist while walking around people are cursing while talking with each other (front, back, left right ) wow its such a cultural shock for me .. and mind u the swearers are all young kids..

what is happening!!

2006-12-17 14:01:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there a difference between the two?

2006-12-17 14:01:07 · 13 answers · asked by taken2007 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i have been going out for three months but it always gets kinda akward on the phone. any good topic ideas? -or anything for that matter-

2006-12-17 14:01:03 · 10 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Singles & Dating

yea i tryed calling the cops she lies and says i beat her and call her names

2006-12-17 14:00:29 · 19 answers · asked by Chris P 1 in Friends

i bought my mother a 400 dollar necklace for christmas. she said shes always wanted a real pearl necklace. i felt so warm when i bought it. i have 30 thousand coming in i felt that i wouldnt ever be able to buy her something like this again i put it on my charge card. its only 150 a month. do you feel it was to expensive . its a one time thing. if my husbad found out he woudl be mad

2006-12-17 13:59:57 · 10 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family

would it be kinder to your wife, children, and parents to go ahead and take your own life now, rather to have them see you suffer, and prolong their heartbreak?

2006-12-17 13:58:59 · 10 answers · asked by chris r 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

On the other hand, men who are cool and confident are viewed as "boring" and "too nice".

Why is this? Do healthy, well-adjusted men need to start being obnoxious jerks so that women will like them?

2006-12-17 13:58:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone always tells me that age doesnt matter. But seriously what are the chances. She's a senior and i'm a sophomore. Does that happen often? should i go for it?

2006-12-17 13:58:28 · 40 answers · asked by joejoe22 1 in Singles & Dating

that you can't afford?

2006-12-17 13:56:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

that you can't afford?

2006-12-17 13:56:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i like the one girl and she likes me back, and this other girl told me tonight that she's been lying to me that she didnt like me, and i like her back. and i'm confused on what i should do. i havent hung out with the second girl in a couple months. so what should i do

2006-12-17 13:55:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you know when youre in love?
how do you know its real?

2006-12-17 13:55:13 · 8 answers · asked by stacims 1 in Singles & Dating

everytime i tell a girl i like her..After that, she will keep avoiding me...what should i do? ..so many girl are like that..i can't stand..am i too ugly?

2006-12-17 13:54:42 · 25 answers · asked by edel 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me any sugestions. me and this girl r goin out. im 15 and she is 13, so we r under age. i live in nevada and she lives in missouri so its a long distance relationship. i dont think we will be able to see each other until we r both 16. we love each other so much but arent able to see each other for a while. give me suggestion n how this could work. thank u. all answers r welcome so say wat ever u want i wont report any one

2006-12-17 13:54:01 · 6 answers · asked by Antonio 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have a wonderful sex life, weve been married for 8 months and he asked me what i would think if i would dress him up as a girl while we have fun. He said he always wanted to try it and says hes not gay or bi. I think it would be fun to try it but need some thoughts a ideas???

2006-12-17 13:53:47 · 20 answers · asked by Mike P 1 in Singles & Dating

im 16 years old and i wiegh 130 and i play baseball and im populer at my school but a girl found out i wore them and has dissed me ever since. i wear hanes

2006-12-17 13:53:45 · 15 answers · asked by dodgehemi6901 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I am 21 years old and my fiance is 26, we love each other very much and want to have a baby. We are renting our place and oth have full time jobs that earn decent pay. We dont have anything in savings as yet but are starting to save money. We both have very nice cars we are currently paying off. We have already got everything set up (eg:cot, change table etc etc) and the australian gov gives you $4000 when you have the baby as a baby bonus. We arn't that worried about money, it would be a struggle but if you love each other and you bring up your baby with morals and with love does it matter? But my father thinks im stupid and should wait until i own my own home, i want to tell him to mind his own business but i dont want to lose him either help....

2006-12-17 13:52:47 · 10 answers · asked by Krystle C 2 in Family

i bought my mother a 400 dollar necklace for christmas. she said shes always wanted a real pearl necklace. i felt so warm when i bought it. i have 30 thousand coming in i felt that i wouldnt ever be able to buy her something like this again i put it on my charge card. its only 150 a month. do you feel it was to expensive . its a one time thing. if my husbad found out he woudl be mad

2006-12-17 13:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family

ok i have this friend that i like he told me that he likes me too but he tells me that he still thinks that i like my ex n i dont get it too because he told me a bunch a times he cares but is ignoring me. im almost going on vacation n i want to know whats going on ,but im scared to ask because im scared about wht hes gonna say.my friend tells me just to go ask him whats going on but i still need more advice. PLEASE, PLEASE, HELP ME. I NEED ADVICE??????

2006-12-17 13:52:17 · 14 answers · asked by i got drama 2 in Singles & Dating

I am thirteen years old and an eighth grader. After the first seat switch in science, I begun crushing on my new science partner. At the date of his birthday I purchased him a present, and a few weeks ago I slipped him a long, literate, and sappy love letter - in which worked as I received a love letter back the next day saying that he likes me also.

We are now chatting endlessly on Yahoo email after he had given me his email address, and he had just given me his phone number and asked for mine. Since we were both going to Las Vegas for Christmas, we were also planning to make arrangements there. My associates all think we should be labeled "girlfriend-boyfriend" already.

But he never asked me out, never acted beyond the level of a friend in school, never even hugged me physically, and his friends only found out yesterday after finding my first letter to him. Does he want to keep our relationship email-and-phone or does he want me to make the first move?

2006-12-17 13:52:17 · 18 answers · asked by Pariah 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 13:51:47 · 6 answers · asked by alex b 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 13:51:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now my friend in her 20s she thinkin something wrong but i keeps tellin her it okay she a virgin still cuz she ain't got no man. BUT she thinks she gotta go out and just have sex cuz it not normal she still a virgin. there no time limit right. what yall think?

2006-12-17 13:50:59 · 20 answers · asked by smartsexycurvy 1 in Singles & Dating

The bride-to-be got pregnant and eloped, leaving me with a non-refundable $300 pink bridesmaid dress! I fear it won't sell on E-Bay... Any suggestions?

2006-12-17 13:50:11 · 16 answers · asked by EvaKate 1 in Weddings

My financee is in Iraq. He lied to me and took his R&R in Australia to be with another woman. I found out he had sent her flowers (5x). All my flowers say I love you, hers didn't say that. He said they were friends, then why did he lie about going to Australia & tell me he was in Germany. He deeply appologized and said he was sorry and it has only ever been me. I am having trouble with this. He comes home in 4 months. Meanwhile, while provided with this wake-up call, I think it is best to take everyones advise & date others. He hurt me beyond words. I have had several guys hitting on me & remained faithful to him. He could have came home on R&R and seen me. I still love him, but as painful as this hurt me, I don't know I can forget it. He ruined the trust. I am an attractive blonde, faithfully, responsible woman. He is a short, stocky, balding, not the best looking, geeky type. I turned downsome nice looking, outgoing guys to follow my heart & my heart is shattered.

2006-12-17 13:48:50 · 8 answers · asked by taken2007 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 13:48:43 · 29 answers · asked by bowlingcap 2 in Singles & Dating