i bought my mother a 400 dollar necklace for christmas. she said shes always wanted a real pearl necklace. i felt so warm when i bought it. i have 30 thousand coming in i felt that i wouldnt ever be able to buy her something like this again i put it on my charge card. its only 150 a month. do you feel it was to expensive . its a one time thing. if my husbad found out he woudl be mad
2006-12-17 13:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Nothing you buy your mum will ever replace the love between you, a gift like this will make her feel special but will not replace for a second the special bond you have.
Give her something more valuable to her, and at little cost to you, and free to your bank, give her your time, give her your love.
I lost my mum earlier this year, to have her back would be the most precious gift of all
2006-12-17 16:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by Martin14th 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you pay it off on the smallest amount possible on the card add up what that necklace will actually cost you!
Pay the thing off as quickly as possible and don't be hiding things from your husband. Money issues hidden quickly become huge problems in a marraige.
2006-12-17 22:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by yeller 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your mom would also be upset with you for spending money you do not have in your account now, so why not get her a lovely freshwater pearl necklace, they are beautiful and not nearly as costly,and maybe some day you can get your mom the more expensive one but right now please do not
2006-12-17 22:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well not being horrible but what if your mother changes her mind and says she doesn't want a pearl necklace
2006-12-18 09:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a nice gift....my son got me a diamond bracelet for mothers day and i was so shocked because he is not earning much, he told me he'd been saving for about 9 months so he could get it for me....and said i was worth every penny....i was speechless....you did a nice thing for your mum....and yes...she's worth it...all mums are
2006-12-18 03:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it's worth it - nobody should be able to fault you. Is it necessary to tell your spouse this, if you think he'll be mad? T-H-I-N-K !! Blessed Christmas !!
2006-12-17 22:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by PikC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any mother is worth that, and more.
2006-12-17 22:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Polo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋