I am thirteen years old and an eighth grader. After the first seat switch in science, I begun crushing on my new science partner. At the date of his birthday I purchased him a present, and a few weeks ago I slipped him a long, literate, and sappy love letter - in which worked as I received a love letter back the next day saying that he likes me also.
We are now chatting endlessly on Yahoo email after he had given me his email address, and he had just given me his phone number and asked for mine. Since we were both going to Las Vegas for Christmas, we were also planning to make arrangements there. My associates all think we should be labeled "girlfriend-boyfriend" already.
But he never asked me out, never acted beyond the level of a friend in school, never even hugged me physically, and his friends only found out yesterday after finding my first letter to him. Does he want to keep our relationship email-and-phone or does he want me to make the first move?
2006-12-17 13:52:17 · 18 answers · asked by Pariah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I know that I am quite young to take relationships seriously. >_<;;
2006-12-17 13:59:21 · update #1
Yes! I am thirteen! I am just literate, that is all! (Proving that my academics are well enough to not be interfered by having boyfriends!)
2006-12-17 14:01:04 · update #2
First of all, your vocabulary is extremely advanced for an eighth grader. Now, about that boy thing... He probably wants to wait untill Vegas to see what your all about. He doesnt want to do it in public because if things dont work out, then people talk. Believe me, they do. when your in LV get together, but dont put out. He'll think your too easy and quickly get bored. Guys like nothing better than the hunt. Go out together and just talk.
2006-12-17 14:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Billy E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, young people can expect too much of a situation -- or as we used to say, can read too much into situations.
I think that it was normal when you began to have a crush on your science partner, but to worry about whether or not you will be bf-gf might be a bit premature.
Can't you just be friends? Do you really have to worry about this going farther than that? Are you in a rush to be more than friends?
For the bottom line, I'd suggest that you go on your way and play it by ear. Be glad that you two can talk about things, but you don't need to worry about it being anything more than that.
Enjoy your young life. As complicated as it is, it's probably much simpler than you think.
As for what he thinks should happen, I don't know. But, he might think that it's nice to have you for a science partner and friend.
Happy Holidays!
2006-12-17 14:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by brightpool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you sound very mature for 13, but I think that is a bit too young to have a real boyfriend. I'm not some old lady who doesn't know what's up (24, yea yea it's old to you), but seriously there is nothing wrong with just being friends. You'll have plenty of time to date and have boyfriends in high school. If he is 13 himself, he might not really want a gf right now and will ask you when he is ready. Does your parents let you have bfs and date? I couldn't do that until I was 15/16. Times sure are a changing. Good luck and behave/be careful in Vegas:-)
PS, just because you don't have a boyfriend does not mean your are ugly (WTF)! There are plenty of hot girls who happen to realize that they are too good for a lot of the immature jerks in HS.
2006-12-17 14:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't maintain it a secret. I don't comprehend what the immaturity of the other youngsters bought to do together with your relationship. Simply don't do anything stupid. It is also unfair to you and to the people around you. Making it a secret will make you think like you're doing some thing mistaken, and it's going to be tough on you, emotionally.
2016-08-10 02:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by jensen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BELIEVE me, you don't need a boyfriend at your age. They are just added stress. Focus on your school work and have fun just being YOU. Boys wont make your life any better right now, in fact they will just hurt you because they are too immature at that age to respect a real relationship. Get good grades, do sports, play music, do things that benefit YOU and YOUR LIFE. Boys will always be there in the future.
2006-12-17 13:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by nappyhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask him about it when you guys are in Las Vegas, there will be lots of little special moments as in any vacation, so you can ease the question in subtly.
2006-12-17 13:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 years old and should not even be thinking about having a boyfriend. Concentrate on your school work, you have plenty of time in the future for boys. What is the rush. God bless****
2006-12-17 13:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well-just ask him. he will b honest, nd tell u wheter or not he wants to go out with u. i'm 13 too! yay! 7th grade, but my boyfriend is getting me a Coach 4 christmas
2006-12-17 13:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by ~Victoria Beverly~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're a mite too young to be making moves on boys. You should just cool it and wait until you are at least 18 before you make any moves
2006-12-17 13:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe hes still tryin to see what your about P.S dont listen to the girl above and below me their just one of those ugly ppl who never had a boyfriend
2006-12-17 13:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋