My husband and I have a wonderful sex life, weve been married for 8 months and he asked me what i would think if i would dress him up as a girl while we have fun. He said he always wanted to try it and says hes not gay or bi. I think it would be fun to try it but need some thoughts a ideas???
2006-12-17 13:53:47 · 20 answers · asked by Mike P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ps Im on his name
2006-12-17 13:54:28 · update #1
If he wants to try it out, I would say sure, go for it. If that is what you really want to do and you are comfortable with your sexuality enough to do it. My Aunt did the same thing with her boyfriend and he still wears women's clothing and make-up at night when he goes out. Apparently he likes women's clothing more than men's clothing. Just be careful, but still have fun and keep the spice in your marriage.
2006-12-17 13:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to recollect if there have been incidents in the past during your marriage (and courtship) if he has given any indications that he has such cross-dressing or bi thoughts. If he had, then you need to be careful before such a request becomes a habit with him, and this can totally ruin your marriage. If not, trying out new things like things should add spice to your sex life, but repetition of this and similar requests......no.
2006-12-17 14:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably right that he's not gay or bi. But, he is most surely a transvestite. That is exactly how some former friends of mine started out. She dressed up like a guy, he dressed up like a girl.........it was all about him dressing up like a girl. They ended up in divorce after he got arrested on a DUI, while dressed like a girl. This was my experience, you asked the question, I answered it.
2006-12-17 13:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too weird for me. Why in the heck would a man want to pretend to be a woman unless there was something else going on in his head. I could see role playing, but a man playing a woman? Maybe, I am just old fashioned or heard of men with underlying issues that come up in a marriage later on.
2006-12-17 13:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Shiva07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
many men like to wear women's clothing. it does not mean they are gay at all.
If you are ok with him cross dressing and role playing, what others opinions are should hold no meaning.
Your ok with it..he wants to do it..go and have fun!
here is a site with a few details on cross dressing.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cross-dressing
2006-12-17 14:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes go and do it.. It is very thrilling. Maybe when he is giving u oral.you can think of a woman that u know and in your thoughts she is sucking you. Tha will probally get him more horny and waht a hot session u will have. good luck xoxo
2006-12-17 14:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One time I dared my intense college (and later ex-husband) boyfriend to placed on a gown. He did and laughed my *** off....and laughed...and laughed. I easily have a image someplace! Now replaced into I grew to become on by utilising it? do no longer comprehend, i replaced into too busy giggling!!
2016-10-05 10:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dressed up as a girl, I suppose he would expect you to dress up as a guy.
2006-12-17 13:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not try thinking of outfits like seceratary policewoman or teacher then put together a outfit and once he's dressed take it from there
2006-12-17 13:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is gay! Sorry but dress up is one thing,there are over a million costume ideas and he picked to dress as a little girl,not a woman,a little girl.Are you serious?
2006-12-17 13:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by fnocentelli 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋