My financee is in Iraq. He lied to me and took his R&R in Australia to be with another woman. I found out he had sent her flowers (5x). All my flowers say I love you, hers didn't say that. He said they were friends, then why did he lie about going to Australia & tell me he was in Germany. He deeply appologized and said he was sorry and it has only ever been me. I am having trouble with this. He comes home in 4 months. Meanwhile, while provided with this wake-up call, I think it is best to take everyones advise & date others. He hurt me beyond words. I have had several guys hitting on me & remained faithful to him. He could have came home on R&R and seen me. I still love him, but as painful as this hurt me, I don't know I can forget it. He ruined the trust. I am an attractive blonde, faithfully, responsible woman. He is a short, stocky, balding, not the best looking, geeky type. I turned downsome nice looking, outgoing guys to follow my heart & my heart is shattered.
2006-12-17 13:48:50 · 8 answers · asked by taken2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey you are worth far more than this. i say you go out there and find you someone who deserves you!! take my advice you can find someone out there that you can trust and he will be everything you ever dreamed of. You do not have to settle for anything less. pray about it. I will pray for you. good luck make the right desision.
2006-12-17 13:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by summer girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he is a cheater and you are not married yet. I would not marry him. If you were married I would say work on it because you have made a commitment to God. However, even the bible says that cheating is grounds to end a marriage. Go forward and find someone with values and ideas like yours in a relationship. He does not deserve you.God will send you someone who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve. He is a looser and does not deserve you. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-17 21:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him with your knowledge of his affair and move on to greener and better looking pastures, you deserve it. Your good looking why settle for someone that it not good looking and can't be trusted. If it happened once it will happen again.
2006-12-17 21:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by iceblue_purple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a playa alright...
if you are an attractive blonde you should have higher standards, dump him and go find someone better than him who is more faitful to you and deserves you.
2006-12-17 21:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by billjoio28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a dear dumbass john letter an get to gettin!
2006-12-17 21:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the world sex and disease, it's best to limit sex to only one. You don't want to take any chances. So you should dump him.
2006-12-17 22:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him & move on with your life.
2006-12-17 21:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump and run !
2006-12-17 21:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by Dave S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋