On the other hand, men who are cool and confident are viewed as "boring" and "too nice".
Why is this? Do healthy, well-adjusted men need to start being obnoxious jerks so that women will like them?
2006-12-17 13:58:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's the law of the jungle- That which is loudest and brightest gets the most attention!
But, seriously, (some) women do eventually grow up, get tired of being treated like dirt, and want to find a nice guy. That's when they stop dressing like hookers, and stop hanging out in bars.
So, look for the women who look like they've grown up a little and might appreciate what a nice guy has to offer.
2006-12-17 14:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ivy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think some women like to be with a man that other women would like to be with. often times people like to show off what better way than having a guy who seems the soul of the party and a little bit risky. (A bad boy). Yet many women soon grow out of this strange attraction its called maturity those women who just can not get enough of the so called Bad boy lack any real self worth. In time we all want to be with a peacfull loving person. I also find that you are who you are. well adjusted men can not turn into bad boys they could not pull it off like wise bad boys can not change into decent men what happens is that we all get older. and situations in our lifes change and we have to adjust. in most situations the woman/girl of a bad boy will try and change him when she matures. Providing she has self worth.
2016-05-23 03:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noo....men do NOT need to be obnoxious jerks, there are enough of them out there. Maybe some women get attracted to that, but after a while they will get sick of it and want someone who is more laid back. That or you may just be hanging out with the wrong type of women.
2006-12-17 14:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by College girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all women. I personally do not like loud, obnoxious men. However, well adjusted, calm demeanor, nice and educated. Very good, you are probably looking in the wrong places. God bless****
2006-12-17 14:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women don't think that! Women like men who are confident and strong. Sometimes the nice guys don't seem confident. Rude arrogant guys appear very confident. Confidence and self assurance is the key.
2006-12-17 14:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wasn't there some comedian who said something like that---a really nice guy is 'too nice' but a bad boy comes in and every woman thinks 'I can change him'
women want to be needed. and they don't want to be (despite what some say) the one wearing the pants. and loud, tough guys come off as being more 'manly'.
women don't ALWAYS like that better, but sometimes. a woman doesn't want a guy she can push around. so if the "cool and confident" guy can show he has backbone, I think he'd be better off.
anyway, please don't be bitter. not all women are alike--and surely you can find one who is well-adjusted herself and not looking to define herself as some bad-boy's saving angel.
2006-12-17 14:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by Netty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are wrong, most women dont like rude and loud men.
2006-12-17 14:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by 51ain'tbad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that at all.
Maybe the women you know are just maladjusted.
Or maybe you're creepy, but I'm going with the first one.
...I'm just kidding. I have no idea. But I do not feel that way about men.
2006-12-17 14:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by lovely 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the women who think that the jerk-off's are "sexy bad boys" are nothing but ho-sluts and aren't any better than them.
Your partner is a reflection of you.
I prefer a nice, well-adjusted man myself.
2006-12-17 14:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by nappyhappiness 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude ive plaid every agnle there is to play even the one your refering to and ive also asked why each one worked the most comon response to this one is that they think they can change you to them its a challenge they want to achive eventually they get tired of this and leave you you best option is to be your self the game will only take you so far if you treat it like a game youll never get anything long term as long as its thought of that way
2006-12-17 14:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋