Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

I want someones advice. i have been with a guy for two years now and we share a child. My guy does not do anything much to help me out either financially or emotionally, he have cheated on me before and his ex girl comes to my house. He has three other kids with different women and at this point i just found out that i am pregnant and all he does is wait on me to come home from work so i can make dinner for him, i am so sick now and weak, should i leave him and have the baby and raise my kids by myself or have an abortion and still move on with my life? please some one help me.

2006-12-13 07:29:46 · 33 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I went with this boy for three years but we broke up twice during those years. Here recently we have started back talking and I really love this guy. I am scared to give it another chance but I am also scared to back down the one person I love. What should I do?

2006-12-13 07:28:36 · 15 answers · asked by Cherri09 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, i have 2 friends, lets say carlos and charla (not my friends names). We were iming eachother. I asked carlos about questions about Charla, like whats her fav color. Carlos knew everything!!! Im mean everthing!!!! Like for example i asked charls, whats my fav t.v. show and she says the oc. I HATE THE OC, but she says it was just a random guess, very random. So i asked calos the same question.... SHE SAYS THE OC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So i got mad because i think they were on the phone giving eachother answers, or something. I mean i got mad and i said, I CANT BELIEVE YOUD LIE TO ME!!!! And said goodbye and signed out!! I get extra mad cause im on my period, though. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-13 07:28:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My children want to come live with me & I have been to court over this and their grandmother won't let them live with me but she will allow them to live with their father. I have done everything that was asked of me by the court & they still turned me down. What else should I do. My children are so unhappy right now. I gave her temopray custody until I was able to get on my feet, now that I am she wants to fight me on it. What should I do?

2006-12-13 07:27:59 · 4 answers · asked by earlybird01051972 1 in Family

So check this one out for a change my bf met me in a very weird form but the point is that he met me! so that's an automatic downfall but back to the point when he met me I looked like **** and he knows it so I can't really understand why he tried to get with me but the point is that lately he's been worrying about my look a little too much and it's to the point where I don't even feel comfortable in my own clothes, so just this past weekend I went to a party which I invited him to and he told me I had to look good because he was going to introduce me to his friends, I thought this was really mean but I got completely dressed up and even left him in shock so after that he stopped bothering me and I can't understand why he is so insecure about me if his friends were ugly as hell and he's not the lucky charm himself! Please tell me what to do or what to say to him? I already tell him idcare what he thinks i'm going to be myself whether he likes it or not, but it doesn't work! Why?

2006-12-13 07:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by turtle 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this Japanese student at the college I go to but shes very shy and I don't know if shes intrested. How do I get her to notice me?

2006-12-13 07:27:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah this is for my other half...........not about to approach a stanger a whip her shoe off!! lol

2006-12-13 07:27:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 07:26:49 · 18 answers · asked by MICHELLE W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He doesn't want to tell my parents that we're going to be getting engaged in June, because he wants to wait to tell them until after my 18th b-day (which is at the end of September). I wanted to get married right after I turn 18, but he kinda talked me in to waiting for the winter of 2007, to have a winter wedding just after the first snow. I really want to be able to tell my friends and family when I get engaged, but he's worried about how my family will react, because he's turning 19 this month, and I'll still be 17 when we get engaged. I'll have three months after I graduate until I turn 18.

What should I do?

2006-12-13 07:26:43 · 8 answers · asked by Rainy 2 in Family

2006-12-13 07:26:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in a serious relationship, so I want something fantastic, yet personable. I got him a really nice Kenneth Cole watch a few months ago for his birthday, and cologne seems generic, plus he bought some for himself recently. He likes sports. (Texans and Astros), and he LOVES music.

2006-12-13 07:26:33 · 1 answers · asked by mafarrar 2 in Singles & Dating

Do girls choose jerks on purpose so they can have broken heart?

2006-12-13 07:25:08 · 15 answers · asked by Peter X. Long 2 in Singles & Dating

Why are there women who tend to like men who are not available, but cant stay in love to those who professes their undying love to them. Psychological aberration or just plain immaturity?????

Anyway here's the poem.....

The Impossible Good

To educate her hardened heart
An Impossible feat
Attraction uncontrolled to
Unrequited love

Afraid to get burned
Biggest fear to get hurt
Path of least resistance
To love someone who can't

Why can't she stay in love
To someone who does
Was there a shadow of doubt
Or a hint of pretense

Impossibilities
Her quest for answers
Unreachable, Unquenchable
Thirst for truth.

Hold her hand
Blindfolded and masked
Lead her to the winding road
Bring her back to her senses.

2006-12-13 07:24:09 · 7 answers · asked by ♦cat 6 in Singles & Dating

I need to buy 120 candles, and 120 candle holders and I am trying to find them as cheap as possible. Any ideas of where to look? So far Wal-Mart is the cheapest at 50 cents each.

2006-12-13 07:24:04 · 9 answers · asked by Lindser 2 in Weddings

how can i do this my marrige is on the rocks
he is 26 yearold and dose not wont to get his own life
move out on his own. but he calls his mother
to argue with her sress her out and take out on me?

2006-12-13 07:23:12 · 11 answers · asked by Richard R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 07:23:08 · 12 answers · asked by anjel 1 in Singles & Dating

mine has to be on the eiffel tower or in picadilly circus on the lights...!! ooohh

2006-12-13 07:22:55 · 23 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Weddings

So I have never done this bondage thing...so who is willing to teach me from here....(females only...I don't go both ways...) LOL

2006-12-13 07:22:02 · 15 answers · asked by I'm Loving Life 3 in Singles & Dating

Which one is more intimate, kissing or sex?

2006-12-13 07:21:36 · 44 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

im really stuck here and i need your help people

2006-12-13 07:21:16 · 21 answers · asked by bayboosky 1 in Weddings

why or why not?

2006-12-13 07:21:15 · 7 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-13 07:20:13 · 44 answers · asked by so delicious 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 07:19:41 · 17 answers · asked by mercedes r 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like I do ..but I mean,,.. I haven't had many boyfriends and those that I've been with ..I get tired of them ...why? ...I want a real serious relationship... I want to know what it's like atleast haha... I don't want to sound imatture but It's true,.. I think I need a boyfriend... or am I a bit imatture?

2006-12-13 07:19:27 · 35 answers · asked by Lizzeth 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 07:18:48 · 16 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 07:18:27 · 29 answers · asked by anjel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-13 07:18:20 · 23 answers · asked by mr. perfect 1 in Singles & Dating

whta should i do if 3 of my best friends r hurting themselves in diffrent ways,,,,,like 1 of them is starving themselves and theohereone is cutting thenmselve and the 3rd one is doing both....idk what to do i am the oly ppl they trust aand im the only person who knows but they epect me to give advise to them about it but the advice i gave them they do not wont it like goign to tlak to soem one and stuff lik ethat so I NEED HELP FAST IDK WHAT TO DO I DO NOT WONT TO LOSS MY BEST FRIENDS what should i do HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELP MEEEEEEEEE PLEASE......

2006-12-13 07:18:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Child services?

Recently, my ex-husband stopped paying child support/spousal support. I could not afford to take him to court, so I filed with child services. Once I found since he was not following his court order, that my attorney would most likely be paid by him and child services could take 6 months to 1 yr to get my support payments I went ahead and hired an attorney. NOW, my ex hired an attorney who told my attorney that I HAVE to close the Child service case out in order to go against him in court. Is this true. I would hate to cancel child service and find that was BS. Thank you
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this is a case in Los Angeles county, Ca. for my girlfriends case. Thanks so far for all the responses, If anyone can give further info. We would greatly appreciate it. Thanks ptrip


this is a case in Los Angeles county, Ca. for my girlfriends case. Thanks so far for all the responses, If anyone can give further info. We would greatly appreciate it. Thank

2006-12-13 07:17:56 · 6 answers · asked by ptrip6 1 in Marriage & Divorce

phone tell me that the reason why he cheated on me because he did not love me and he use me to get what he want from me also he told me that he was in love with his bady mommy. after all those 11 long f u c king years . how can he do this to me. pleas no rude answere ok. i am going through a rough time to get over him

2006-12-13 07:17:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating