I went with this boy for three years but we broke up twice during those years. Here recently we have started back talking and I really love this guy. I am scared to give it another chance but I am also scared to back down the one person I love. What should I do?
2006-12-13 07:28:36 · 15 answers · asked by Cherri09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont be the frist to give in make him work for you when you spend more time with him you'll see if this is going to be the love of your life or just a waste of your time Good luck
2006-12-13 07:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by silver01222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if it didn't work the first or second time, then it surely won't work the third time either. No matter how much you love the person, sometimes two people just shouldn't be together. I was with a guy for 3 years, we broke up 3 times, and after a year or so of being apart we talked about getting back together, but we never did because we both came to the conclusion that we just don't get along and we shouldn't be together.
2006-12-13 15:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by mskristin1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship I believe in 2nd chances. If there had to be a 3rd chance I wouldn't go for it because that's a good sign for me that the relationship keeps going down hill somehow instead of being solid a one. It becomes too much work with adding too much baggage to deal with all the time. It was broken for a reason so I will leave it at that. I have learned I would rather go on than playing an emotional roller coaster with someone who supposedly loves me.
2006-12-13 15:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that depends on your reasons for previously breaking up with him (or him with you) twice. If you have reason to believe that your past issues have been resolved, and you're both single and still love each other, give it another try. If those issues haven't been resolved, or if you have any doubts, ask yourself if you really want to put yourself through that again. And remember, no matter how much you feel you may love him now, you CAN move on, and you CAN love again.
2006-12-13 15:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by pooge0287 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you two break up those two times? Depending on the reasons for the previous 2 breakups, then maybe you should give it another chance, and maybe you shouldn't.
It all depends on why you two broke up in the first place.
2006-12-13 15:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rainy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give him other chance i guess but if it don;t work out the first two time it hard to say but give it a try who know
2006-12-13 15:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard. something i pulling you back to him. answer this is it just because you feel like he is the only ne who will love you if it is yes then walk away if no then he must mean something to you, say to your self i will give it one more try then i will leave and never go back. good luck
2006-12-13 15:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
third time's a charm.. if you really think you need to then do it.. but three strikes is also an out.. so if it messes up one more time i wouldn't go there again.. follow your heart..
2006-12-13 15:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first time, he wanted u back, 2nd time, he has started to walk over you, if u get to the 3rd base, he will use u
so dont
2006-12-13 15:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Tai Chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
third times a charm. If it dont work, break it off again for good.
2006-12-13 15:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋