I love my husband.. It's been a bad year for us.. He was in an accident that left him feeling useless for several months, then I found out I was pregnant.. it was all a lot to deal with. I just gave birth to our second son a week ago.. and the day after I got home from the hospital I found out he was planning on leaving. I confronted him.. and it was true.. He said he would stay and "see how things go", but that is just not a commitment to me. He is short with me, and my oldest son, and doesn't help much with the baby. I couldn't deal with living in limbo so I packed up the boys and came to my parents house for a few days. He said he was confused and needed some time to think. I love my husband and I want to make this work.. but it's like his head hasn't been in the right place since he got hurt.
Am I supposed to wait and see what he wants? Or do I just assume it's over and start figuring out how I am going to live life without him and take care of these boys on my own?
2006-12-13
07:34:55
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