Is it wrong just to hook up with someone?

Question

If ya'll both know that it is nothing seriuos, but ya'll just like to make out. Is that being a whore?

Answer 1

Sun in Leo

Leoian energy - motivated by inspiration and aspiration! Spontaneity! Ready for encounter! Fire on the mountain! Fire energy can be warm, vital, vivacious, cheerful and loyal to whatever happens to hold its interest. Fire energy craves freedom and opportunity and yep, a steady stream of opportunity for new experiences.

The Fire energy of royal Leo can be assertive, competitive, ambitious and full of confidence for the future. Fire energy learns best when actively engaging in and grabbing hold of life. Fire loves adventure and hates routine!

I suppose you’ve heard the phrase, "Fake it, till you make it!" Well, Leoian energy builds self-confidence, by putting on demonstrations and shows of bravado. By acting self-confident, Leoian energy becomes self-confident in truth as well as deed. "It's all right letting yourself go as long as you can let yourself back." Mick Jagger, Sun in Leo British singer

As fixed fire, Leoian energy is much more self-reflective and inner-directed than the average person might ever suspect. Although, since you’re reading this description, it means your Sun is placed in Leo and that morsel of insightful information shouldn’t be much of a revelation. Over the years you’ve learned that, first and foremost, you have to be able to live with and please yourself. You have the strong, burning inner-desire for self-authenticity. So, "to thine own self be true" could be another really good Leoian motto.

Ruled the Sun, creative Leoian energy is colored by an overall strong sense of drama and "bigness." Leo sees the "big picture" of possibilities for the future and for success. Playful, creative, warm-hearted, risk taking are all characteristics common to Leonians who are living out the fullest potential of their birth sun placement.

Let's do something extra special for the Zodiac Sign of Leo ruled by the Sun. Rather than doing the normal thing, looking to Greek mythology, I thought I'd suggest your reading a special story that Rabbi (and astrologer) Joel Dobbins calls the story of the first "star-crossed" lovers in the Judaic/Christian scriptures. I don't mind telling you that this was one of my very favorite bible stories while growing up. The story I want you to read is a story of big action, big violence, big lust, big betrayal, big game playing, big bets, big egos, big revenge, and (last, but not least) big hair. And no, believe it or not, it's not the story of my life…

According to Rabbi Dobbins, it's an "opposites attract" love story between a Leo man (ruled by the Sun) and an Aquarius woman (ruled by Saturn and Uranus). Believe it or not, you're likely already more than a wee bit familiar with this story contained in the Book of Judges. It's the story of Samson and Delilah. You know... Samson is the guy who couldn't cut his hair, killed a lion, was betrayed by his woman Delilah, ended up blind, and (in the end) managed to single handedly bring down a pagan temple.

So why, you might ask, does Rabbi Dobbins call Samson and Delilah "star-crossed" lovers? One of things that Rabbi Dobbins knows (that you likely don't know) is that the name Samson means, "belonging to the Sun." Even more interesting (and more "telling") is that Delilah's name means, "she of Aquarius." Aquarius is the Zodiac Sign opposite the Zodiac Sign of Leo ruled by the Sun. According to Rabbi Dobbins, the story of Samson is divided into two parts, the prologue and the main tale concerning Delilah. The period of time that passes between the prologue and the story of Delilah is 20 years. The prologue, which is the longer part of the story, establishes the character of Samson. The character revealed in the prologue is that which is, oh so, typical of a young studdly Leo male in his prime. The Delilah part of the story tells us of an older Leo past his prime. (And do any of you old hippie types out there remember Sun Sign Leo David Crosby's "Leo anthem" of the late 1960s "I Almost Cut My Hair.") If you can't remember the details of the full story, then maybe it's time to dig out that Bible you've got tucked away somewhere.

With the Sun in Leo, this fiery, bold, and energetic attitude may have been the way you perceived the image of your father (or another significant male figure) when you were young and still in the early stages of childhood. Your birth Sun is the hero of your mythic journey through this lifetime. So Let Your Light Shine!

Answer 2

Sarah,
I am not sure how old you are, but let me tell you a secretly that I had to discover the hard way.
I was raped at the age of six and it keep going until I was pulled out of the home and put into foster care for about a year.
I wish, pray, and grieve for the lose of my purity. Don't do something that will make you grieve for your lose of purity. Sweetheart, your future husband will know that you are going to be faithful to him by not losing your purity.
My adopted Daddy gave me a 'Purity' ring for my 13th birthday and I wear it faithfully on my left hand's ring finger. Don't do something that you will never be able to change back. Have you asked any family member this question? Please ask them, doing the wrong thing will change your whole in tier life for the worst when instead if you were looking to marry it would change it into a whole new different light, and for the better!

Please, Sarah, treasure what you have and leave the rest for later. Marriage will come along when you least excepted it to.
Email me and tell me how it finally all comes out in your heart....
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Answer 3

If you have doubts and are worried about being a 'whore' then this kind of behavior just really isn't going to make you happy.

There's nothing wrong with two mutually consenting ADULTS making a choice to satisfy each others' needs as long as they are on the same page. But, just like any other type of relationship, for it to work there needs to be mutual honesty and respect.

Answer 4

if you keep switching guyz and only make out then sry but yeah its being a whore. i think ppl these days are treating making out and having sex and going out with someone a light matter. you should only do this stuff when you are with a very important and special person with you. not just some guy youve known for like a month and talked with a few times. there needs to be serious feelings for the person. ppl these days dont seem to understand this!!!

Answer 5

nah, just making out is not a whore because being a whore is about the reputation you have. if you make out with alot of people and word gets out then yes, your a whore. But if its just a friend and you dont have feelings(you BOTH dont have feelings for one another) then its fine.

Answer 6

No that's just going out and having a good time.A whore is someone who goes around sleeping with a bunch of guys.You're also not commiting yourself to the person you like to make out with.It's always nice to have fun.

Answer 7

If ur both on the same page it's all good!! Once emotions get involved...someone might get hurt. But I wouldn't say its being a whore....whore's get paid!!! I'm just messin.

Answer 8

No is not wrong. But dont be doin it with every guy u meet because when it comes down once to it u might wanna take someone serious and it might be too hard for u to be in a relationship.

Answer 9

No I don't think so honestly if that's what you want to do and not be in an honest and open commited relationship then go for it but I wouldn't call yourself a whore for it your single aren't you ??

Answer 10

as long as both parties know what the skinny is, before, during, and after said hhok upo, and what the rules are (meaning...how much of a hook up), it is totally cool...

Now if it being done for another reason...to try to win a heart, to cayuse jealousy, or might be confused with romantic love...well, then it gets hairy...

Answer 11

No, not a whore because whores get paid for it. You'd be doing it for free, so that makes you less than a whore.