2006-12-13 07:32:32 · 11 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I asked a similar question earlier. I believe, in my heart, that two people who love each other can reconnect if they are willing to WORK on their relationship. I think you throw all the gloves off, and you really get down to the straight facts. I've heard of people who have divorced in a fit of rage; only to reunite weeks, months, or even years down the road. The best things seldom come along twice in this world. Even in the middle of the mudslinging, I think you can reevaluate your stance, make some changes, and work at it; especially if children are involved. You have to acknowledge that you're part of the problem too. No one is a saint in the middle of a divorce.
But, if you can't find the root of the reason you divorced in the first place, I don't think you will find satisfaction in the same relationship again. If you make changes, really understand your issues, and work to commit yourselves to each other again; I think you can find happiness again with the same person.
2006-12-13 07:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by funnyface 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. I have. And it ended up in a divorce the second time around also!!!!!! Oh. I will change. Right. Never did change!!! And then I got married to another man who had lost his wife to cancer. I should of ran for the hills the first time I met him.. This one might end up in divorce court to. You never know. It is better to be alone than to go though some of the s*** I have been through.
2006-12-13 15:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did. After 16 yrs of marriage, my wife divorced me on the grounds I quit trying, but I stayed in the area for the sake of my daughters. Stayed in close touch with my ex due to the girls. Tried the dating scene and after 5 yrs of divorce, we just figured we were the best bet for each other, worked out our differences and remarried by the Mayor of Atlantic City 7 yrs ago and couldnt be happier. So lightning does strike twice in the same spot. It just all depends on what you really want in life and somethings are truly worth the effort to cahse down the 2nd time
2006-12-13 08:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have a friend that did that and she had to divorce him again because he cheated with the same person the second time around that he cheated with the first time. Sometimes the second time around doesn't work out especially if the person has not changed.
2006-12-13 08:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes I re-married my first love whom I had children with...
F***ing disaster,couldn't stop raking up why we got divorced in the first place.My advice is If you got divorced there was probably some good reason for doing so,even if it seems long forgotten.
2006-12-13 07:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by mev 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My grandparents did but they divorced again because they never fixed what was wrong the first time. Love isn't always enough.
2006-12-13 07:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are VERY few people who re-marry. SOmetimes when they re-marry, the marriage is better.
2006-12-16 12:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Pauly W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear of Liz and Richard?
2006-12-13 07:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Elizabeth Taylor did it with Richard Burton three or four times....
2006-12-13 07:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO.. But i am sure it would be nice to start over..........
2006-12-13 07:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋