We got married really fast, have only been married a year, it is a struggle all the time. He doesn't work, on disability, but can make so much extra, he won't. He has major depression problems and also is bipolar, which since I got married so fast, I wasn't smart enough to even check this area out. He is also an alcoholic, but has no family around. He went on a binge last week and left me, but came back. I tried to stay and work it out 2 days later came home from work at lunch, already drunk and passed out. I left, with no intent of coming back(of course). I have a neighbor who is a friend(?)and I called her so I could keep check on his whereabouts (he's also VERY suicidal). She told me to call as many times and all night if I needed. All the sudden she was going to bed, early. My husband called me FINALLY the next morning, begging for another chance. Yeah I thought it might change. Hoped. He hasn't been 'interested' as normal, and now I think the phone call was more guilt
2006-12-13
07:41:53
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not2bright
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Marriage & Divorce