My guy is a little upset because he can't get me "over the edge" during sex alone. Any pointers on what can help?
2006-12-13 07:47:09 · 27 answers · asked by voodoo_moonbaby43968 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys are not alone! There are lots of woman who can't get "over the edge" alone and your man should not feel bad. The most important factor is getting you "over the edge" and not how you got there...right?
However, you can try talking dirty, role playing, watch porno movies, or more foreplay. Tell him what you want! A woman has many "turn-on" spots...so have fun looking for them! Good Luck!!
2006-12-13 07:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is some statistic that more than half of woman can't "go over the edge" just from sex alone. On thing you can try that used to work for me, but not anymore....have him go down on you first until you get really close and then start having sex. Or you can touch yourself during sex to get the other stimulation.
2006-12-13 07:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by Beach bum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him tease you.
foreplay Foreplay FOREPLAY
try new things to discover turn-ons you didnt know you had.
maybe your a lesbian?
stop masterbating when your alone.
masterbate before you start.
FOREPLAY!
make him last longer.
he's gotta lick it before you kick it.
talk dirty (this takes practice, some dirty talking can quickly become offensive, so lay down some ground rules)
did I mention foreplay?
explain that women can have an orgasm 5 ways
mentally, clitorally, vaginally, g-spot, and breast stimulation
(some girls do it 1 way, others a few, a lucky few any way)
if by "alone" you mean, you have to touch your self:
use a doggy style postition (there are a few variations) and let him try a reach around. if he isn't good, let him practice ;-)
if by alone you mean 3 or more people are involved...
good luck with that...
if worse comes to worse, let him know you care about him, and you enjoy the intimacy, and the passion rather than the climax.
or you can lie and say that it feels so great the whole time, you don't need an orgasm (show him data proving women have more nerve ending than men)
2006-12-13 07:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are toys and tricks, but in the end, he just needs to read that it's pretty normal. Most women need stimulation that the penis alone doesn't provide. If he really wants to make it happen, he needs to set a mood that enhances the chances. Take you out, woo you, make you amazingly loving of him and in the mood to rock out... then maybe it can happen. One of my favorite lines right now comes from Dale from the show King Of The Hill; he needs to "through some woo atcha and see what sticks"
2006-12-13 07:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by oceanblue_007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont put to much pressure on yourself to come that will only make it harder for you and work with him tell him what you like and ask him to go down on you when you get to the edge tell him to stop and enter you if thats still not enough stimulate your clit during sex
2006-12-13 08:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sawyers girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an uncommon problem.
Foreplay (lots of kissing/touching & manual/oral stimulation), and during sex one of you need to stimulate the clitoris. It can take a woman up to 20 mins to reach orgasm. That is why foreplay is so important. The longer you two take on foreplay the shorter the amount of time it may take to reach orgasm during sex.
2006-12-13 07:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 06:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww sounds like the little dude got himself worked up a bit. Just pretend a bit let him get his confidence up he'll be cool when he chills out.
Oh and oral lots of it loads of it in fact.
2006-12-13 07:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by Bohdisatva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get you really worked up with foreplay. Try different positions. Some girls like doggy better.
2006-12-13 07:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coach him, work with him, tell him what excites you. Try different positions. Extended foreplay will help him get the desired results.
2006-12-13 07:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋