I have done some things that may seem crazy to a guy I liked....such as driving by his house at night and him catching me, trying to kiss him on the dance floor when he wasn't having it, texting him when he doesnt text me back, thinking he is seeing someone else when all my friends deny it. I am in the process of getting over him.....with due time I will be over him and I can go back the my group of friends (which he is a part of) and not act so crazy around him. Do you think that he will not think of me as "that" crazy girl who once stalked him or is this beyone repair??
PLEASE HELP!
2006-12-13 07:40:51 · 20 answers · asked by Sam s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing beyond repair, there isma strengh in u that u never discover untill u put it in a try....dont be discouraged by anything sweetheart, be urself and talk things over..Goodluck.
2006-12-13 07:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, without a doubt.
I would never forget those things if a girl did them to me..
(it actually has happened to me... and she is still the "crazy" one I escaped from ..and that has been 10 years)
You need to move on, and in the future don't get so hung up on somebody. Even if you do, the best way to get a guy back is to act un-interested. Guys dig the chase. You are chasing him. B-o-r-i-n-g... and not to mention you threw in a little "crazy" on top.
sorry if that was blunt but you did want an honest answer, right?
2006-12-13 15:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well of course at first he will think that until your actions and behavior show something different. Since you liked this guy so much you might always act a little crazy around him though. Just remember to never do this again with anyone else.
2006-12-13 15:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be beyond repair. Just never do that again. You are the girl the men are suppose to chase you. Not you them.
When things calm down you can always apologize to him and see what he says. Maybe you will be lucky. But never ever as a female do that again. NO matter what. It is not fair to the other person and not fair to you.
It will also push that person away from you.
2006-12-13 15:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by shellie t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You remind me of one of my friends, she is a bit of a fruit cake aswell. But to be honest though, its part of who she is and me and and my friends wouldn't change her for the world. She has a heart of gold and seems to always mean well.
I would say, put it behind you and get back with your friends. In time it would all be forgotten. The sooner you get on with it the sooner it will heal over. Im sure he wont think of you as a crazy girl forever, (and if you are getting over him anyway, you shouldnt care).
Hope it goes well, with what ever you decide to do in the long run.
2006-12-13 16:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one... He probably will keep thinking that until you pay him no attention, be cool around him, even find yourself another love conquest (without the creepy stalking) and maybe he'll relax around you.
Just for future references, stop the madness! guys tend to run like hell when they hear you have psycho tendencies...
2006-12-13 15:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dahlia O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it might be a lil beyond repair. sorry to be the bearer of bad news. just try ur best to get over him and leave all the stalking stuff alone.
2006-12-13 15:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probablly feeling quite low at the momment what with all this happening and xmas around the corner .your obviously to good for this guy anyway . you never stalked him you cared for him and thats not a crime . just get on with life babe . we have all been there and felt like this .. Chin up and keep smiling
2006-12-13 15:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by bob a builder 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea you will probably be that crazy girl for awhile but really who hasnt done the drive by? or sent text messages that werent returned is no big deal but guys are jerks about that stuff he should be flattered by your attention
2006-12-13 15:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but who cares! If you are getting over him then get over him. We all have done things we’re not proud of. What matters is what you do now.
2006-12-13 15:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by mg3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋