can any one help? he thing is that my folks are split and my dad doesent call any more! or send cards or gifts. and get this but when he does call he says he loves me and says he'll call in the next week, and two months later he calls. does not pay chiled support. he always says he wants to be in my life, but then never follows through with it. this is interfering with my life and school work. can any one give me some advice? thanx for the answers.
2006-12-13 07:42:26 · 3 answers · asked by Rhiannon. Stay[[+]] 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think your dad has some serious problems that you may not know about. It may not be helpful for you to know about them, either. I have seen this with other families.
This is tragic for you, but now you have to take care of yourself. There is nothing you can do to change your dad. I wonder if there is any kind of support group you could join.
But the main thing to remember is this: This is not happening because of anything wrong with you. Your life has to go on, with or without him. Study hare and become a good person so that you will be able to have a good life, and take good care of your own kids if you have any.
I wish you the best.
2006-12-13 08:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your dad how you feel let him no you need to talk to him because you love and miss him, And Do you no how hard it is to pick up and phone when your heart is breaking some times it easier not to pick it up.Get a number and call him.
2006-12-13 19:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by helen l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My father did the same to me as a girl it was seriously damaging but good in the sense that i know i have and never would make a promise that i couldnt keep
2006-12-13 16:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋