Because it takes so much more than love to make things work. If two people have love, but lack communication skills, self-confidence, solid morals and common interests (just to name a few skills), marriage can fail rather quickly. Marriage is work, but it is great work in which the end rewards are fabulous. Love, although a key component, will not carry the entire load for a marriage the same way that electricity will not keep you connected to the internet on its own. :)
2006-12-13 07:54:03
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answered by Anonymous
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In a society in which egocentricity, self-gratification, narcissism, and selfishness are glorified, it has become more and more difficult to establish good relationships of any kind. People want desperately to find closeness and warmth, but they have forgotten the art of sharing, of communicating and cooperating, of adjusting. They have forgotten that lasting relationships require patience and forbearance. What is more, such relationships require concern and consideration, and even sacrifice.
A good marriage is an intimate and loving relationship which gives both partners security, friendship, companionship, support, comfort, and deep love that penetrates every aspect of life. None of this can be achieved without work and sacrifice.
Marriage may be compared to a plant that requires daily nurture, daily attention, daily care and cultivation. It will not develop of its own accord; only as effort and will are exerted will it grow and mature. For a marriage to succeed, both husband and wife must be committed to its success. They must build an enduring love relationship that is centered in the heart of their consciousness. Their relationship must be nurtured with the water of loyalty and love.
2006-12-13 08:01:53
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answered by Me 6
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because people dont care about the seriousness of marriage....they need to do some soul searching before they use the word love and marriage
2006-12-13 07:56:50
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answered by walking s 1
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no no no no...all love marrages don't go end to divorce...i saw lot families in my life.maximum divorce reasons...1...not good understanding, 2...sexual problem,3... freedom,4... famil background situations,, we solve the problems.. we avoid from divorce definitely...
2006-12-13 08:18:37
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answered by chithu 1
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i think that a lot of thing people get marry for the wrong reason and they dont take the time top know each other that why i believe its so important to date each other slow down married is being commitment and a life time
2006-12-13 07:59:17
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answered by nightman122554 4
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they get unhappy with there marriage, cheating, lies. want different things out of life.
2006-12-13 07:48:54
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answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4
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Trust, money or communication issues.
2006-12-13 07:53:16
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answered by Chanel 3
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I agree with what "Me" said, Love. "It always protects, always trusts, always perseveres. Love never fails."
2006-12-13 08:23:35
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answered by WhyNotMe 6
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lack of communication
2014-10-18 01:08:23
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answered by kanon 2
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spinkster said whaaaaaaaa
2006-12-13 07:51:06
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answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5
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