Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

2006-12-13 08:13:45 · 9 answers · asked by Studmuffin 3 in Singles & Dating

okay heres the story im real cool with my brothers and i go everywhere with them, but on friday they told me they were going to the movies to meet some girls, so i was like okay i wont go then. but they really picked up my friend and went to the movies. they left me haging. also at the movies my brother kissed my friend. no one told me about this. and i would expect my friend to tell me but she didn't. and the bad thing is i was at her house on sunday and she act like nothing happened. what should i do, is she a true friend. should i be mad at my brothers and her for not telling me they went to the movies, knowing that i always hang with them?

2006-12-13 08:13:13 · 7 answers · asked by brooklynchicabonita 1 in Friends

have you ever thought that you were just a replacement, and that people just listen to you when noone else is around? or when you try to talk to someone you just hesitate cause you think that noone will want to talk to you. or that you will just be respected but not for long. I tryed to talk to someone and then this guy was like smiling, and then she just starting to talk to soeone esle, and then you feel like you are egnored. or when you are in a class, and then peop;le,are around you, but then someone comes to you and would be like " oh, you are in this class" and you feel un recognizable.

2006-12-13 08:13:13 · 6 answers · asked by sally b 4 in Friends

I was babysitting for this really nice family and then I decided that the kids should go outside. So we went outside and they played capture the flag with their whole neighborhood in this 9th graders yard. (I'm in 7th grade) So I started to talk to him because I knew him from grade school a couple of years back. Randomly he told me to go into his brother's room (I didn't) what did he mean by that what was he implying???

2006-12-13 08:12:59 · 14 answers · asked by Katherine 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfriend. She wants me to move in with her. I told her that I was not ready to move in with her and I am not. But there is more truth to this: I love living by myself. I feel safe, content and incontrol. I feel like I would be happy if I could have a relationship for meny years and not have to move in with her. I have lived with someone before and I felt trapped, monitored, and suffocated. I can't stand not being able to do my own thing with out having to explain where I was, how long I was there, and what I did. You know what I mean? When you live with someone you always have to check in and be checked on. I don't like that. I know that this is the norm for most relationships and that its just common courtesy but I am afraid my girlfriend will eventually leave me because I rather live a lone. It's not that I dont wanna be around her; I just feel like I am a better perosn when I have my own space. Last time I lived with someone I went crazy. What do you think my deal is?

2006-12-13 08:12:35 · 5 answers · asked by metrogurl 2 in Singles & Dating

just wondering i think it should work both ways what do you think

2006-12-13 08:12:31 · 10 answers · asked by jab 2 in Singles & Dating

I know the bible says that when a man and a woman come together as one, your spouse is supposed to be number one, well, after God. I ask this question because I feel my spouse puts her family (most especially her parents) first. Is it supposed to be this way? We are both Nigerian, but live in the states. However "her" parents want "us" to move back to Nigeria along with all her siblings. To be honest, Nigeria has nothing but ugly memories for me. I have nothing but a broken up family in Nigeria. A time might come where she is forced to choose, but from what I see, I feel she might choose to be with her parents. Is this supposed to be the order of priority?

2006-12-13 08:12:25 · 17 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a 3 year relationship with my guy, who was the best thing thats happened to me so far. Last 4-5 months, he started to date someone and what I thought was casual friendship, turned into a serious commitment. He introduced the girl to his parents and since then, has refrained from any physical intimacy with me. We broke up quite bitter about each other last month. Two weeks back, he messaged to check how I was doing and we ended up meeting, talking about good times and how we both miss each other. He says he loves me, but cant love me. Yesterday, I messaged to ask if he could share some of the love he shared with me all along, coz I still love him, until the time I found someone else. He refused and said that I was trying to get things back to what they were. I was furious at the rejection and messaged him stating that he is no longer the person I had loved all along and a goodbye. Did I do the right thing by shutting him off completely from my life and not be friends again?

2006-12-13 08:12:10 · 4 answers · asked by Fast C 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend's relationship has been on the rocks lately..and now it has gotten to the point to where he won't even speak to me. but the thing thats bothering me most is his ex. see 8 months ago after they ended their relationship on bad terms...we started dating each other and everything was going fine all the way up until now. see i just recently found out that he has been asking about her even during the time our relationship was going good, i also found out that he emailed her a few days ago....and just last night he added her back on his friends list after he deleted her a few months back.... and not to mention he's been telling ppl he's single i mean what the hell is going on here?? do you think he's doing this to get up under my skin? or could it be that he misses her and that he's trying to patch things up so they could start all over again? i mean why would he want to go back to someone he's had a bad relationship with in the past???

2006-12-13 08:11:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this gym teacher.I'm quiet and not very athletic,so at first he started paying that special attention to the lame duck.Then, he started teasing me.then It became poking fun at me.He would tell me I was too much of a girl, r would announce to the class that i was a loser or something like that.Then, sometime in October, he started getting physical.I don't mean sexually, but he'd show up out of nowhere and shove me, or he'd hit me with rolled up papers for no apparant reason.Then he started "joking" with me about whipping my butt with a broomball stick, or a fencing foil.I didn't find it funny.Now, every time I see him, he is rude, but appears to be having fun with me, making jokes like we were best friends or something.This morning, a teacher sent me to his office to get something, and he just randomly started punching me on the arm really hard!I said to stop and that it hurt, but he didn't listen, I pulled away, he gave me the note,and I left. Is this wrong? What's going on?

2006-12-13 08:11:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP !!!!!!

2006-12-13 08:10:47 · 9 answers · asked by awesomelucky127 1 in Friends

as stewie in family guy said "she's attractive and all but when she smiles she shows too much gum, not a good tooth to gum ratio"

2006-12-13 08:10:27 · 5 answers · asked by hellraiza15 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 08:09:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like dis guy @ my skewl.....hes light skinnded and tall and got waves.......but neways i told my BESTFRIEND about how much i like him and whatever and then a couple daez after dat she hooked up wit him and ****. she asked me if i was ok wit dat and i didnt want sum bullshit to mess up our friendship so i was like "yeah your strait gurl!!!!!" but inside i felt let down.........the next week he dumped her and was tryin to talk to me so i have been talkin to him a little and last night we were talkin and he told me to skip skewl and go to his house to talk but i had to wait for him to come to skewl........so dis mornin i waited for him out front and my bestfriend came out there and was like what are you doin out here are you crazy its like 30 degrees out here!!!!! and i juss told her i was waitin on sumone so right about dat time he rolled up in his car and he looked @ me and was signaling for me to get in but i didnt so he walked into skewl. should i keep talkin to him or not plz help!

2006-12-13 08:09:52 · 7 answers · asked by baby_phat 1 in Singles & Dating

welll...its almost been 11 months that me and my ex been apartt.. i hadnt talk to him for a very long time and just recently we talked he was down cause he broke up with his gf.., i don't know what to doo... reallyy.. i still can't get over himm i tried so hard.. i really can't take it.... its jus so hard.... i want to tell him i still love him the way i use do... but i know he doesnt feel the same way .... i really dont know what to do... please someone help me out =/

2006-12-13 08:08:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay im in louv with this dude, liam, and he has hair 'till his but. its long, and brown and ahhh.......(swoon)
well anyways, my friends were asking me some questions and one of them was would u still like him if he cut his hair off?
and i thought about it, and i realized no. its his hair i like, not him!!!!!!!!!!!

is he worth it...and is this weird

2006-12-13 08:07:51 · 11 answers · asked by GROOVY LILY 3 in Singles & Dating

that was just to get you to come to my question..lol. Anyways, Do you think there is a possibility i could spark a relationship with this girl. We have been talking some online. We told a little personal information about ourselves. She is single, and alot more sexy than I. I did not do a good job trying to get something started with her friend, but she doesn't think im truly like that. What do you think, I don't see her at school. You still think i could a) become good friends with her, hanging out and stuff and turn in into a relationship?

2006-12-13 08:07:27 · 14 answers · asked by dude wheres my car 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 08:07:23 · 8 answers · asked by bam 2 in Singles & Dating

i go out with my friends about once or twice a month..... to go shopping with no money. been married for 3 years but i really miss having friends, especially when i go to school full time and see girls going to the club or bar or wherever with their "BFF". i just want everyones opinion. should i have a serious discussion with the hubby about wanting less time with him and my son, and more time for me?

2006-12-13 08:07:14 · 6 answers · asked by i rock 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a single mother of one with my own house, my own car and a good job. Whenever I met a guy I fill a little weird because I do not know if they think that I will need him to help me or be a father figure or if they respect this fact that I can do good by myself? I was married since I was 18 and I am now 26 so this is the first time I have been alone so I do not know what to expect???

2006-12-13 08:06:38 · 29 answers · asked by stephanie c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 08:06:37 · 57 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 08:05:47 · 10 answers · asked by ajcarter000 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend say shell always be my best friend and just resently like november she got a boyfriend and he is always with her. but then this girl started likeing her boyfriend and she started hanging out with her like everyday. this girl has done it to me twice and she ruined my that best friend me and the girl say that were still best friends but the girl always was trying to mess my friendships up well thats what i think. but anyways then the girl started like my best friends best friend[if that make sense] and now they go out and just recently i looked on my best friends and that girls profile and it says best friends. i confronted my friend and she said we will always be best friends dont worry about it and hers says best friends and mine says best friends forever[pictures on her profile]

NEED HELP!!!

2006-12-13 08:05:39 · 18 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Friends

ok, here's whats going one.

my boyfriend is great. i just want to start by saying that. he's not a bad guy and he's allmost perfect. but lately, we've just been fighting almost every day. he thinks i flirt a lot w/his best friend, and, ok, i kinda do, but i have toned it down A LOT and we dont' mean anything whatsoever by it and he knows that. also, he keeps hearing that i'm going to dump him from random people ( i don't even know who because he won't tell me). we keep working it out but i don't want this to keep happening. i just want to solve it once and for all! i really really really like him and i don't wanna lose him.

2006-12-13 08:05:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is 22 years old and she is dating this "granddaddy" that is 44 years old and she seems to be happy. I think it's going a little to far when she WANTS to have his child. I tell her she needs to think about her future and if this is the right man she wants to be with. She says she is not looking to the future she is looking at whats going on presently. Any advice on what I should say to her or what I should do???

2006-12-13 08:04:14 · 12 answers · asked by Black Diamond 2 in Friends

My mother always said that "no man will give you his whole paycheck". If he does, does it just mean that he knows he doesn't make alot and it's best for him to put his little bit in the pot or is he really just being honest and up front?

2006-12-13 08:03:57 · 5 answers · asked by Rebelicious 2 in Singles & Dating

i got a step sister who treats me rotten,and girl who wants to e mail me about it can my e mailis
wayneoneill123@yahoo.ca
thank you bye

2006-12-13 08:03:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-13 08:02:33 · 19 answers · asked by RaShundra C 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it the same? worse? different? weirder?
How would you react?

2006-12-13 08:02:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 08:02:25 · 37 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Marriage & Divorce