okay heres the story im real cool with my brothers and i go everywhere with them, but on friday they told me they were going to the movies to meet some girls, so i was like okay i wont go then. but they really picked up my friend and went to the movies. they left me haging. also at the movies my brother kissed my friend. no one told me about this. and i would expect my friend to tell me but she didn't. and the bad thing is i was at her house on sunday and she act like nothing happened. what should i do, is she a true friend. should i be mad at my brothers and her for not telling me they went to the movies, knowing that i always hang with them?
2006-12-13 08:13:13 · 7 answers · asked by brooklynchicabonita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just because you two are friends doesn't mean she has to tell you everything that goes on in her life. As well as for your brother. Everyone needs privacy.
2006-12-13 08:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun no you should not be mad at any of them, because they did say they were going to pick up girls at the movies, they just did not tell you that one of the girls was going to be your friend. And I am not sure if you are a girl or a guy, so as for being mad about them kissing, I would think not because if you are a guy , you said she is just your friend! and if you are a grirl then yes, because she is a friend of your not your bother's and they should not be tring to date or make out with your friends.
2006-12-13 16:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok how'd u find out?
well i think u shouldn't be mad at ur friend all that much but just tell her it's stupid for her not to tell u but ur brothers did lie but u cant really do anything about them just tell them u know dont act like u care
2006-12-13 16:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront your friend and just straight up ask her if she did if she says no then make sure you actually know that she did this and ask your brother to back of of because you don't exactly want for him and your friend to hook up because that would be really weird and tell your friend that you want to be her friend and support her in every choice you make. have a merry christmas hope i helped you
2006-12-13 16:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by doodum500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why they probably didn't tell you, is because they were scared you wouldn't be able to handle it. so prove them wrong, show them you can handle your brother dating your friend. or else then they were right hiding it from you sorry. but i will have to say one of them or both of them should told you from the beginning. good luck and happy holidays.
2006-12-13 16:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by J.Bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they used u
2006-12-13 16:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by cheergal4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know this happen if you were not there?
2006-12-13 16:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by XxMiKeY sToP StEaLiNg CoOkIEsxX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋