I was in a 3 year relationship with my guy, who was the best thing thats happened to me so far. Last 4-5 months, he started to date someone and what I thought was casual friendship, turned into a serious commitment. He introduced the girl to his parents and since then, has refrained from any physical intimacy with me. We broke up quite bitter about each other last month. Two weeks back, he messaged to check how I was doing and we ended up meeting, talking about good times and how we both miss each other. He says he loves me, but cant love me. Yesterday, I messaged to ask if he could share some of the love he shared with me all along, coz I still love him, until the time I found someone else. He refused and said that I was trying to get things back to what they were. I was furious at the rejection and messaged him stating that he is no longer the person I had loved all along and a goodbye. Did I do the right thing by shutting him off completely from my life and not be friends again?
2006-12-13 08:12:10 · 4 answers · asked by Fast C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg. i am going through the same thing right now with my ex. we were together 2 and a half years. we broke up 2 weeks ago. and he already has another girl friend. they were talking for a week behind my back. im so damn jealous and i wish that he would want me back. and he messaged me and told me to leave him alone and that he doesnt want to talk to me anymore. so i said FINE. i was fine not talking to him. it made me stronger and it made me not even care anymore. but he now he says he wants to be friends. he knows i love him and i want him back. but he says he still loves me blah blah. you cant love someone and be in a relationship. it doesnt work out like that. especially being with someone for so long. i talked to him lastnight and we talked. i cried. i realized that i dont want to talk to him. it will make me better and stronger. its the last thing i need right now. he already ****** me over and is with another girl. i say you are doing the right thing. you guys cant be friends. it will be too hard. cause your always gonna want more than that. you want to hold him and kiss him like you use to. thats why i dont want to be friends with my ex. its too hard. shutting him out will help you heal. i know its hard. believe me. but its for the better. he will realize what you guys had was good. and when he comes crawling back to you. will be like sukka i dont need you anymore!
2006-12-13 08:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never never never go backwards.....
if the two of you broke up.... it is because it was NOT working... and although you will have some happymemories of the relationship the relationship itself was not working....
You were right to cut him off completely...
2006-12-14 00:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa....that sux
walk away sister
2006-12-13 16:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by adonnis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remain just friends
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2006-12-13 16:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋