my best friend say shell always be my best friend and just resently like november she got a boyfriend and he is always with her. but then this girl started likeing her boyfriend and she started hanging out with her like everyday. this girl has done it to me twice and she ruined my that best friend me and the girl say that were still best friends but the girl always was trying to mess my friendships up well thats what i think. but anyways then the girl started like my best friends best friend[if that make sense] and now they go out and just recently i looked on my best friends and that girls profile and it says best friends. i confronted my friend and she said we will always be best friends dont worry about it and hers says best friends and mine says best friends forever[pictures on her profile]
NEED HELP!!!
2006-12-13 08:05:39 · 18 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What the other girl is trying to do is muscle in on your best friend's boyfriend. She's just using her to get closer to him and telling her all of these lies and whatever else to keep her hanging with her. Whatever you do, confront the other girl and talk to your best friend and tell her how you feel because that is not fair to you to be left in the dark. Good luck to you!
2006-12-13 08:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should put your energy into something else. Find someone that is a true friend to you. Someone that will be there thru thick and thin. You can't call everyone your friend because they are not. I bet if you start hanging out with some different people your so called best friend will be trying to kick it with you. Then that gives you an opportunity to kick her to the curb.
2006-12-13 08:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There comes a time in every friendship that two friends drift away from each other. That's how you can tell if your friend and you are really friends...if you both find your way back to each other. Don't sweat it. Friends come and go...But REAL friends are few and forever.
2006-12-13 08:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by oodlesoanimals 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i wouldn't go really into it and whatver you do don't get clingy. she is your best friend it doesn't mean she can't have other friends. Giver her some space but call her every now and then and try to hang out with her become freinds with her friend and all three of you hang out. just don't become clingy.
2006-12-13 08:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by m&m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about the other girl your making yourself look jealous just do you and dont worry about the other girl
2006-12-13 08:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by portia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can have more than one best friend. U sound really jealous...get over it...she's allowed to have more than u as a friend.
2006-12-13 08:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by [un]bro/ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's the type that likes to control your way of frienship with her and others. She's having fun while you are waiting for her.
2006-12-13 08:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she stillis your friend but just want to hang in a differnt group for a little you will be hanging out with them soon.
2006-12-13 08:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your "friend" face to face say be honest and if she lies to you that really would not be a best friend. plus theres more REAL friends out there.
2006-12-13 08:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by tyshi8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't sweat it. all you can do is not trip. She will learn in the end and will be coming to you. Just be their for her in the end.
2006-12-13 08:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by want-my-advice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋