2006-12-13 07:44:46 · 47 answers · asked by bob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Without a doubt, that is so endearing.....maybe I'm biased because i have a son of my own, but all i know is i admire any man who takes their responsibility when it comes to their children seriously, that in itself is so appealing, and attractive to most women...not all, but i would have so much respect for any man who takes care of his own. Children are so precious, and grow up so fast it's unbelievable...my son is now a teenager, and travels, and has grown into a fine young man. I have so much respect for you Ish, and i truly feel that any woman who finds you and recognizes your qualities, will quickly learn to accept your daughters also. A man like you, oozes with attraction.
2006-12-13 19:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find him attractive, but wouldn't date him because I'm not ready for a family. I think the children should be a deciding factor in who a single parent dates so its important to be upfront about it.
Even if you have the best of intentions, dating a single parent can be a loaded situation.
And saying that woman who wouldn't date someone with kids isn't "mature" is a little off. Isn't it a sign of maturity to know that you are not at a stage in your life where children are an option?
2006-12-13 08:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES ~ because some women find a man who is already a dad attractive.
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NO ~ because some some women (not all) may not be ready for the responsibility of suddenly becoming a mom to someone else's kids.
2006-12-13 07:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by Bunnytoes:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they would! Women automatically come with that mothering thing in their system and when they see a guy with little kids they melt or just go ahhhhhhhhhhhh. it shows a guy is dedicated to his kids- that he is responsible and one heck of a guy! Now if the guy is just an idiot than no! lol BUT if he is nice looking- kind- and gentle than sure she would be attracted! We like guys with puppies too! lol
2006-12-13 07:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man I am with has 3 kids. Two girls, and one boy. He is still very attractive. I knew about his kids before we got together. Our families are friends. Him and his ex wife broke it off because she couldn't deal with kids any more. So he takes care of them all. and of course I help him.
2006-12-13 07:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jeni Bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, that would make him MORE attractive. Watching a father interact with his daughter just touches the heart.
IF you have daughters and a woman finds you LESS attractive, honey, run far far away.
2006-12-13 07:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something that has to be known up front. It could work. The chick might have kids to, or want kids. It isn't a total bad thing. Work with what you have and don't hide it. Good Luck.
2006-12-13 07:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course, especially if he was a good Dad! I think if the girl has a problem with that then she isn't riight for you. Your girls should ALWAYS come first. Be careful who you let in their life, after all you are their Dad and you should protect them!
2006-12-13 07:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would, but I love kids. If you find someone you like,just tell them you have two little girls, right from the beginning, and tell them that they either accept your girls,or they don't accept you. Its a package deal.
2006-12-13 07:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think it wouldnt matter. i mean as long as they are both adults, (because of immaturity), it shouldnt matter how many kids you have. but if ur married it would be different. i have a daughter and im pregnant with my second and i am single right now and i have lots of men still thinking im attractive which is strange since im starting to show (LOL)
2006-12-13 07:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋