i mean u get depressed if they dont text u
and u get super depressed wen they dump u!
at first its all very exciting
then it all melts away!
2006-12-13 07:30:43 · 20 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"love is just a four letter word" Bob Dylan
2006-12-13 07:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You last two lines spell it all out. Excitement is over-rated because it does fade away.
Looks it sounds like you might sit around waiting for guys to act - either texting you, calling you, asking you out, maybe even giving presents or whatever. Are you a little passive in relationships. Maybe you need a relationship upgrade to a "we" relationship. They take time and patience and pacing. Sure excitement is there at first but there are other more important aspects that make the two people a unit when the initial excitement and hotness wears off. Mutual respect, reciprical kindness, common interests and value systems and a profound desire to be in the other person's presence. Keep your chin up.
2006-12-13 15:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by kvcar2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But when it is exciting its the best feeling in the world and nothing can compare to it....for a moment in time you experience something special with another person and that cannot be undone
You know what they say...'its better to have loved and lost...than to have never loved at all..'
2006-12-21 04:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by Brown_Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think not, and hope not! The other things you describe are not actually love I would say but the process of finding the right person.
Check out www.willhecall.com for distractions and pick me ups for those very situations you describe!
2006-12-19 10:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word "love" is overused and most don't understand what it actually defines. No offense, but I don't think that you have actually ever experienced love.
Real love is worth all the pain and effort that it takes to find and maintain. And even finding it can take a lifetime...
2006-12-13 15:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nikki it would seem to me you pick the wrong guys there are a lot of good men out there so don;t go picking them up in bars and n/clubs wait until someone introduces you to someone you fancy you sound and write as if your very young so you've got your whole life before you.
2006-12-20 06:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it only melts away if you let it. ever relationship needs work to keep the spark alive. love is only overrated to those who dont want it
2006-12-13 15:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if you find someone worth it all
Of course, anyone under the age of 18 has he love life similar to a rollar coaster
2006-12-13 15:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by Kurt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love like life has its ups and downs and we should never allow the "downs" to affect our lives that much as we can still find better love elsewhere.
2006-12-13 15:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by marizani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmm! Doesn't say much for what you refer to as 'Love' - or is that 'love' or even - love ....!
Maybe finding out what 'that' word that you perhaps use too freely ~ could possibly mean, would help you ~ maybe help you to be more discriminating in its usage in the future.
Is it a possible?
Sash.
2006-12-13 15:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋