ok, i've been on a couple dates with this guy and i like him alot.. well i've kinda noticed that when i wanna talk to him durin the day or whatever he doesn't seem that interested until he wants to go out again.. maybe i'm just too paranoid because i haven't had someone new in a while! am i getting too attatched by talking to him so much and scaring him off or what? i really like him so guys, i really want your serious help! don't put any bs on here for an answer, please..
2006-12-13 07:35:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could be that he is just busy. Maybe he is just using you. You have to look to your feelings. Do you get along well when you are together. I mean really talking and spending time just the two of you. Not out at a movie or a bar or spending time getting you ready to have sex. If you don't talk about daily life when you are together you will never know how he fells about life in general. You may get into a serious relationship without even really knowing who he is. Try to talk to him over dinner. If the conversation fades quickly or the time seems to pass slowly then maybe the chemistry isn't right.
Remember that no amount of cuteness or sexiness will last until you 50th anniversary. When the passion fades there better be something to replace it.
2006-12-13 07:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kyle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just be involved in his work or something during the day. If you have only been a couple of dates I would keep it light for a bit and see what happens.
If the pattern stays this way then you might have to look at moving on if that isn't what you want.
You could even ask - "Is it ok that I am calling you during the day?", he'll ask why or say yes or no, if he asks why, tell him he seems a bit pre-occupied on the phone and you wanted to make sure it was ok...this will give you a good view of what is going on.
Good luck
2006-12-13 07:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by b b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously think you need to fill your life with other things so that his calling or not calling doesn't have such a big impact on your life, emotions or mood. If you were busy leading a fun, interesting exciting life, what he does wouldn't make or break your day. Girls who sit around waiting for some guy to call are boring.
2006-12-13 07:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is selfish look for a meaningful relationship elsewhere or play hard to get yourself.
2006-12-13 07:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Demingo00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that iwouldn't talk to some one if she was all over me
but if you are not that kind of person than maybe he's shy and think's the same about you, if he is shy ask him what's wrong and take the lead
2006-12-13 07:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by TuPapaSantos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him take lead and if he likes you he will make sure you know it.It's a plain answer but it's an honest one.
2006-12-13 07:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by CC Rider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk with him, even if he isn't interested.
2006-12-13 07:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by Steve-o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him aletter simple and short invite her to a tolk
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2006-12-13 07:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋