i have been seeing this guy for about 4 months and he just asked me to move in with him i dont know if i should do it or not? I mean I really like him but i dont know if we are moving to fast. if i could get soem input that would be great. thanks
2006-12-13 07:36:40 · 11 answers · asked by thorohghly confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont move in with him. if you are having doubts then thats all you need to know. wait
2006-12-13 07:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and don't move to fast there is plenty of time for that. I have been in a 5 month relationship and we want to move in together too, But we are taking it one day at a time.
Just enjoy the dating period. Take your time, you will know when you r ready
2006-12-13 07:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by jacqui112671 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 I hope that this is a serious question because I have a hard time thinking that ANYBODY would even THINK about moving in with someone after 120 days. This is not even enough time to know someone. Yes, its way too soon.
2006-12-13 07:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by weezie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months is hardly enough time to get to know someone enough to move in with them, IMHO. That's a major commitment which is usually for people who are thinking about taking their serious relationship to the next level (before marriage).
I'd really think hard about what his reasons are for this. Sounds a bit fishy to me.
2006-12-13 07:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by BVC_asst 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you feel like you guy's are rushing to fast and you want to have every thing planned first before making a choice. Cause you don't want to do something without first thinking about it right?
2006-12-13 07:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bandit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats way too fast to me but for you it might be different.. just sort out the pros and cons about moving in with him and see what you think.
2006-12-13 07:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All in life is about taking opportunities. Go ahead!!
2006-12-13 07:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should decide for yourself on how you are feeling towards him....
personally i think 4 months is a little too fast.
good luck
2006-12-13 07:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by tele t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u want to take it slow for now
2006-12-13 07:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tai Chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him wait a bit and it to soon
2006-12-13 07:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋